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redheadfox
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10 Feb 2011, 3:48 pm

hey im 17 and my brother is 14 and has aspergers .i've watch how much it takes the toll on my parents and i was wondering if there is anything i could to do to help them.Because of recent events at school he cant be trusted to go out on his own so i offer to hang with him for example go the cinema or play ball,but i get no response what ever i try its really infuriating and i really want to help both the parents and him any advice :?:
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10 Feb 2011, 4:03 pm

I'd say, kick him in the kneecap really hard repeatedly until he agrees to come to the movies with you.



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10 Feb 2011, 4:27 pm

ediself wrote:
I'd say, kick him in the kneecap really hard repeatedly until he agrees to come to the movies with you.


I hate movies because they hurt my ears and most of the time, they are just stupid to me.... Too much drama. :D :D :D Find out what his obessions are and take him out to do that thing. If he is into science (for example) go out and do some sort of science experiment.



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10 Feb 2011, 4:43 pm

kfisherx wrote:
ediself wrote:
I'd say, kick him in the kneecap really hard repeatedly until he agrees to come to the movies with you.


I hate movies because they hurt my ears and most of the time, they are just stupid to me.... Too much drama. :D :D :D Find out what his obessions are and take him out to do that thing. If he is into science (for example) go out and do some sort of science experiment.


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10 Feb 2011, 7:11 pm

kfisherx wrote:

I hate movies because they hurt my ears and most of the time, they are just stupid to me.... Too much drama. :D :D :D Find out what his obessions are and take him out to do that thing. If he is into science (for example) go out and do some sort of science experiment.


I agree. Try to find out his obsession(s), and find a common ground. My sister who is NT, and I get along great when we do something together we both like. For example, the other day my sister, and I had a Batman movie marathon, because i'm a huge Batman fan, and though we were just sitting there watching movies, we had a ton of fun.