We often don't like to cook, or even eat in the presence of of others because we are trying to avoid being criticised and bullied by them. Trust me, I am definitely right on that one.
I eat most of my meals, one food at a time. Many things I don't want mixed with other foods, but some are okay to mix. I hate almost all cooked veggies. Once they are cooked they become disgusting garbage to me. They are just so wrong that way, especially when cooked into a soft, mushy, slimy state. I can eat a few veggies raw, and fewer still stir fried, but forget fully cooked. Those baked beans used in commercial baked beans cans are over cooked and disgusting. I can eat some other types of canned beans, as they are not over cooked, but I still don't like them. I do keep some on hand for emergencies, though, and can get those non baked bean ones down by putting BBQ sauce on them. I can't eat peas because they are disgusting when cooked. I think I was able to eat some recently that I bought in a tub of dried veggie snacks. They were not as bad that way. I also bought a tub of mixed dried veggie snacks, and actually liked that a lot, so I will buy it again. Some of the mixed ones were cut like potato chips. They made a fun and healthy snack.
I also have the habit of eating the same meal for each meal for days until the foods needed to make that meal are gone. Then I pick another type of meal and do the same until the fixins for that are gone, and so on. Once in a while I will take a break and eat a different meal before finishing all of the food for the current meal trend, but then go back to the current trend for subsequent meals. I do tend to vary the fruits that I eat for dessert after my meals, though. I find that I like fruit for dessert more than pastries, which is good, as I am very over weight. I don't buy a lot of cakes/cookies/candies, because fruit satisfies my sweet tooth very well,
but I do have a terrible weakness for salty snacks. That is where my real food vice is.
I don't beat myself up over my food vices, as I don't have a lot of other vices. I don't drink, smoke, gamble, do drugs, or throw wild parties. Yes, I know, it sounds like I don't have much fun,
but I do stuff I like to do. Since I am an introverted hermit, most of my fun is solitary in nature, which suits me fine.
Remember, hermits don't have a hermit convention. It would be contrary to our nature. 