Callista wrote:
Yup. Child abuse. I've talked about it before, but suffice it to say that when people tell you often enough that you're worthless, you start to believe it.
and me also. Not to mention, I am an adoptee, so there was the initial abandonment, and then the adopters were alcoholics, and she made it clear that she was dissappointed in her purchase (me) and that I did not meet expectations. I got away from her at age 14, went to live in another state with a step-dad who was divorcing her... oh yeah.
suicide attempt at age 13, because I just could not wait 5 years to be out on my own.... the bully at home was worse that being ignored at school, but then when I went to live with someone else at 14, the bullying started at school and stopped at home. I was mostly ignored at home, which was a huge relief.... it's complicated. But the short answer to the question would be YES. Verbal and emotional abuse, with violence until the age of 14.
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