what type of partner do you look for

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for all people gay or straight, man or women what type of thing do you look for in a partner:
I don't date because most women are very boring and the one's that aren't boring are either alot older or married

Anything that looks like me.

Remember last night?

Somebody impulsive. I want to say "let´s go check out that boulder" and not hear any buts... and vice versa. That´s just me.

I´ve found myself attracting higher age ranges namely because I´ve been easily frustrated by younger girls in the past haha... for instance, I´ve had much more pleasant nights with older women than I´ve had entire relationships with girls in our adolescence [18 -20].

What is it that you find attractive in the older/married women?

Kill it with bolter rifles!

I never looked for one. Though if I did I'd look for marriage material. Basically good health, good personality, stable finance, likes home and children, can drive, manage money, make sound decisions...etc. Oh and be available. See I'm a practical sort of person and don't want to waste time. A partner need to be suitable for me to live with and be available and useful. Trust me, an aspie can really benefit from a kind and "normal" partner who's very useful. It's more about friendship and cooperation, rather than romance. I don't about other aspies, but to me romance is not sustainable. I don't have enough emotions to make that a top priority.

If you're talking about sex partners then I don't have a lot to say. I'm bi and everyone I've been with has been wonderful. Maybe I just don't expect much.

I like a gal who will complain of boredom and say "we should go do something" before I do. A willingness to engage in extremely risky behavior a plus, but not crazy risky. I mean, remote outdoor sex while on acid, fine, but only on special occasions. Skydiving? Stay away from me you suicidal loon!

edit: Oh yeah, I like it when they're smarter than me.

Apparently I like girls who are confident and smart. Unfortunately, the former usually becomes a burden over time, a perpetual source of conflicts. The latter is less problematic, especially if we mutually appreciate each other, and the knowledge and experience we have.

None.

I'm drawn to sweet, timid, naturally beautiful (i..e no tattoos, piercings, hair dye) women who have a strong maternal instinct and act feminine (to compliment my more masculine behaviour). The women I seek you can trust with your life and would never betray you and would be the type of girl I would happily take a bullet for. Unfortunately, they are the one group who seems to be repulsed by me despite how good I am with children.

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Anyone who is like me. But more specifically:

Probably a Caucasian woman, close to my age, wears glasses, pretty intelligent, very strong-hearted....... that's my ideal woman.

I make it a point not to look because generally no-one sees me that way... ever. So i don't waste my time with such meaningless endeavors. I feel to do so, would only set me up for huge disappointment and that ultimately always happens anyway, so what's the point?

I haven't really experimented with romance yet. But I think I'd want someone who's intellectually curious, and who wants to change the world for the better. I don't know if I'll ever really get into it much because I'm not sure I can handle living with another person. It's always stressed me out before. But I suppose a romance doesn't have to mean living in the same house.

I just want someone as awesome as me who I can marry. More specifically, someone with a similar temperament, who shares my religious and political beliefs and unique sense of style (or rather the complete lack thereof!). Important too is that they can accept me the way I am and not try to change me too much. If I find someone like that then I will return the same courtesy to them.

Now as to how this is working out for me...well... I am a 38 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend...soo... umm, yeah...