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do you?
yes 78%  78%  [ 29 ]
No 22%  22%  [ 8 ]
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18 Jan 2007, 5:48 pm

Do yuo like the term aspie? I do. why or why not?



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18 Jan 2007, 5:52 pm

Yes, or at least I don't particularly dislike it. I feel it's a pretty innoucous word.



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18 Jan 2007, 5:54 pm

I like it...say 60 %... the bad is that it sounds too much patronizing to me, like we are poor helpless kids you have to take care of :?



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18 Jan 2007, 5:56 pm

It's certainly catchy, of course, the first time i heard it i kept on thinking of snakes.



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18 Jan 2007, 6:01 pm

Yeah, I reckon it's good. It sounds fine, slightly patronising but it is more friendly than just "people with AS" So yes, I like it.


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18 Jan 2007, 6:19 pm

Voted yes not really that bothered, it's only another name for Asperger's Sydrome.



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18 Jan 2007, 6:24 pm

No, i find the term demeaning.
Don't really like labels of any sort.
'Aspie' also sounds ( to me anyway) as if it is something 'cute', which is not really my perception of the condition.
Patronising for sure.

edit: it's not just another name for Asperger's Syndrome. In the same way people with epilespy, say, are not epileptics. I think there is a big difference.



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18 Jan 2007, 6:39 pm

I neither like nor dislike the word. It's just a word.



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18 Jan 2007, 6:41 pm

It has a nice tune to it.



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18 Jan 2007, 6:44 pm

I've used it a lot here. I like it. Yeah, it IS a cute name, but what is wrong with that?

BTW Frankly, outside of some meltdowns that have been described here, and the fact that others don't care about sensitivity, and expect a certain way of handling non verbal communication, it seems like AS is pretty positive over all. I think a cute name fits.

I don't really have a problem with meltdowns. Still, if what I have are meltdowns, it would be nice if THOSE could be cured. I wish nobody had trouble with them.

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18 Jan 2007, 6:49 pm

I think it's fun to type.



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18 Jan 2007, 7:06 pm

well in writing professional type papes. I do A.S.



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18 Jan 2007, 7:32 pm

SteveK wrote:
I've used it a lot here. I like it. Yeah, it IS a cute name, but what is wrong with that?
Steve


Because it is demeaning and patronising.

I'm not denying that there are positive things about AS.
Just that there is a difference between being a person with AS and being an 'Aspie'.



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18 Jan 2007, 7:50 pm

I like 'Aspergian' best (though I usually just go with 'AS'); but the term 'Aspie' doesn't bother me.



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18 Jan 2007, 9:13 pm

I don't like it, but I use it sometimes because it is shorter than "Person with Asperger Syndrome".



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18 Jan 2007, 9:20 pm

At first I didn't like it, because it reminded me of Cleopatra and her Asps, but now I am used to it.


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