If it is not too invasive, may I ask where you live?
I don't work for the federal government but was diagnosed about 2 years ago right after I turned 37. I managed to get federal disability on my own and health assistance. I am now fairly involved in the community and am a wealth of relevant resources. I would be happy to help in any way I can.
Feel free to PM me if you would rather not share your location on the forum.
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