Do you get along better with your peers' parents?

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Villette
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11 Feb 2014, 11:59 am

Do your peers' parents like you more than your peers do? Back at school, being a weirdo, I wasn't popular at all and had very few friends. Strangely enough the parents of a few peers who usually ignored me seemed to like me/approve of me. They thought I was a "nice girl," a decent, quiet kid who was respectful and diligent in her studies, and encouraged their kids to befriend me. Their kids were more knowing. They knew I was a weirdo and misfit. Even now when I bump into old acquaintances, it is my schoolmates' parents who are pleased to see me rather than my schoolmates. Older people think I have character; the younger generation think I have no personality.

Have you had this experience?



Ashariel
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11 Feb 2014, 12:29 pm

Yes, this describes my experience too. I did such a good job of 'faking' polite and respectful behavior, all the parents loved me (and the kids didn't so much! Haha)



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11 Feb 2014, 4:05 pm

Yes, me too. Even in my 30s it's still the same. Not sure what the reason is.