Going through the same thing over again...
Ever since I first learned of AS back in 2007, the same thing happens over and over again. Someone suggests I have AS, then I go through a period of time where I think I will get diagnosed but it never happens. I am already diagnosed with mental illness and a doctor already told me I'm not diagnosed because "that diagnosis would not change your treatment plan". But of course the doctor never said if he felt I actually had it.
A few years ago I had a therapist think I have AS and tried to get me diagnosed, but it did not happen. Now the cycled has renewed, a therapist has suggested I have AS, but now what?
The only reason why I want a diagnosis is because it would explain a lot. But even if I'm diagnosed, I would still doubt it probably. I don't know why I have this problem where I feel like I have to know once and for all. For some reason I suffered severe meltdowns that I still occasionally get and I just want an explanation for the suffering. Is my reasoning legit?
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If the mental health professional is qualified(licensed/credentialed) for diagnosing you and they want to, they should regardless of there being a cure or effective treatment. There are several diagnoses in the DSM that don't have a cure or are in their entirety non-treatable.
If the mental health professional isn't qualified(licensed/credentialed) enough to make a diagnosis, you need to find and see one that is.
My experience was every single psychologist I saw up until my current one did not want to diagnose me with anything even though I met the criteria. I'd ask and they'd say no. My current psychologist has been a godsend. Not only did she figure out my AS and make the diagnosis, but she realized I had cyclothymia, got me the diagnosis for it and got me into a psychiatrist for meds. The difference in my life between before the diagnosis and afterwards is like night and day. My life is better now. Even if I can't do anything but mitigate a few symptoms of AS, knowing that I have AS and it's not something else gives me assurance that I'm in the know. I can act on what I know, instead of stumbling around in the dark or choosing inaction because I have no idea what's going on.
If the mental health professional isn't qualified(licensed/credentialed) enough to make a diagnosis, you need to find and see one that is.
My experience was every single psychologist I saw up until my current one did not want to diagnose me with anything even though I met the criteria. I'd ask and they'd say no. My current psychologist has been a godsend. Not only did she figure out my AS and make the diagnosis, but she realized I had cyclothymia, got me the diagnosis for it and got me into a psychiatrist for meds. The difference in my life between before the diagnosis and afterwards is like night and day. My life is better now. Even if I can't do anything but mitigate a few symptoms of AS, knowing that I have AS and it's not something else gives me assurance that I'm in the know. I can act on what I know, instead of stumbling around in the dark or choosing inaction because I have no idea what's going on.
The guy that said that it would not alter my treatment plan was qualified to give a diagnosis. The therapists that thought I had it in the past and the one that suspects it now cannot. Sometimes this stuff comes out of the blue, I once was inpatient for my bipolar and one of the doctors suddenly said based on her observations of me I was Bipolar and Aspergers... but her opinion did not make it to my diagnosis. I also once had a layperson say something to me because she said she works with autistics and she can spot it a mile away. I remember all that stuff when it happens to me.
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You should communicate to your therapists that despite the knowledge your treatment won't change you still want a diagnosis.
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