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05 Jan 2015, 2:30 pm

I am curious how many people with AS are not challenged by motor skills in proportion to those who are. Naturally I will never know. However, I'm curious to feel this out a least somewhat by posting this.

I do know many, myself included who are not clumsy at all. In fact I'm quite the opposite. Though my handwriting is almost unreadable, I was and still am extraordinarily gifted at catching a ball.



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05 Jan 2015, 2:45 pm

I am clumsy but I seem to have learned to disguise it well by tending to move slowly and carefully, and by arranging my environment to be fairly idiot-proof. My fixed routine and static furniture arrangements also help to avoid those "didn't realise that was there" accidents.

There's something erratic about my movements if I don't consciously modify them, and when I knock things over it's usually the result of my making a sudden move. Probably gets worse if I'm anxious, which I guess is normal. Apart from the physical predisposition, I think hyperfocus has a lot to answer for here too, making me blind to obstacles.



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05 Jan 2015, 3:07 pm

I think that my special interest that resulted in me spending hours and hours building model airplanes has a lot to do with my hand coordination.

I couldn't catch a ball as a kid. But, I learned to, decades later, in a rehab setting!



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05 Jan 2015, 3:09 pm

I was really clumsy and impatient when I was younger. I was bullied at school because I sucked at team sports and had no interest in getting better. I caused a lot of accidents by being like that, and still cause at times, though I am not that clumsy anymore, just a little bit hyperactive. My handwriting is pretty good though, especially now.



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05 Jan 2015, 3:20 pm

I have always been generally clumsy, but also have specific good motor areas like drawing and certain sports activities.
I suck at catching/hitting/throwing balls, but I can shoot hoops well, and good at skating, skiing, biking, which have some balancing skills in common.


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05 Jan 2015, 3:27 pm

I am actually skilled and not clumsy at all with so called fine motor skills. I can do nearly anything with my hands. My fingers won't shake at all when I do precise works such as threading a needle.

But I am a bit clumsy when it comes to gross motor skills, specially when I am overwhelmed. For example I can walk straight(at least I think so) but suddenly bounce against a wall. Or attempt to crouch down, lose balance and end up sitting on floor. I also have a huge trouble with activities involving other people. I can hit a teammate instead of the ball or bump on people dancing around me. :lol:

BTW. I wonder if my current clumsiness is caused by my AS itself or is it lack of practice since when I was a kid noone wanted to play with me and I was always the last one chosen to a team during sport classes and my team members were rarely throwing balls to me.



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05 Jan 2015, 3:42 pm

I'm classically Aspie Clumsy.



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05 Jan 2015, 3:46 pm

Not clumsy. I can ski, bike, keep my balance working on a steep roof, and long ago was not a bad shot with a rifle.
Not so great with my fine motor skills - my handwriting is not great.


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05 Jan 2015, 3:48 pm

Game on! Now there's two of us born not clumsy. Welcome to the born Non clumsy club



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05 Jan 2015, 4:07 pm

quaker wrote:
Game on! Now there's two of us born not clumsy. Welcome to the born Non clumsy club


As they say, it's a spectrum.
I was clueless when it came to women, and only became competent at dating after researching flirting, social dynamics, and the psychology of sex and attraction. I've had special interests since early childhood - my latest is the science and economics of the oil and gas industry (I think WTI will drop below $50, and we aren't likely to see $80 again for years). I'm pathologically truthful, and extremely sensitive to other people's physical (and basic emotional) pain. I'm almost oblivious to people's social emotion problems, and don't feel social emotions like shame in any tangible way.

I don't really care if I offend people (they choose if they take offense to my behavior). My only problem with being an Aspie with ADHD was my temper and low frustration tolerance. Divorcing a borderline wife and getting a new one that affectionately calls me her Sheldon has removed enough stress in my life so that I've not lost my temper in a couple years now.

As I've said in another post, I'm a proud Aspie. To me, NT is the negative label, not Aspie.


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05 Jan 2015, 4:39 pm

OK off to bed now.

Perhaps I should make clear to everyone that i am only interested in hearing from people who have autism but are NOT clumsy. I am well aware of the fact that most here are rather clumsy.



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05 Jan 2015, 4:48 pm

quaker wrote:
OK off to bed now.

Perhaps I should make clear to everyone that i am only interested in hearing from people who have autism but are NOT clumsy. I am well aware of the fact that most here are rather clumsy.


I would have thought most aren't. John Robison doesn't seem to be clumsy. Mark Zuckerberg (not a diagnosed Aspie but a lot of the boxes are checked) doesn't seem clumsy. I'm pretty sure there was nothing about clumsiness in the DSM-IV, too.


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05 Jan 2015, 5:19 pm

quaker wrote:
I am curious how many people with AS are not challenged by motor skills in proportion to those who are. Naturally I will never know. However, I'm curious to feel this out a least somewhat by posting this.

I do know many, myself included who are not clumsy at all. In fact I'm quite the opposite. Though my handwriting is almost unreadable, I was and still am extraordinarily gifted at catching a ball.



I used to be clumsy but having occupational therapy made me not be clumsy anymore.


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05 Jan 2015, 11:28 pm

I am not clumsy. I played tennis in college for a while but had to quit because I could not keep up with my school work and tennis at the same time. My handwriting is atrocious though.



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06 Jan 2015, 3:01 am

Thank you everyone. I find this very interesting.



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06 Jan 2015, 8:29 am

I'm an aspie and I'm not clumsy or accident prone like, but I hate sports in general yet I have no problems with physical activities. I don't miss steps or fall down or get tripped easily, I learned fast when it comes to biking and skating; balance was my forte.
My main problem is I'm a bad shot, I'm bad at aiming with extensions involved (i can catch and throw better ONLY if my bare hands is involved, but not when hitting something with a racket or similar to that, which I kept missing) and doesn't know how to control strength ('too strong' to hit a ping pong ball 'moderately', always end up aiming 'out of bounds/lines').
My penmanship isn't good, but simply readable without making someone eye's squint. And my drawing... My mind can give me the right ones, but my hands doesn't.


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