No one likes me on this planet

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i find it annoying people in this fourms but no one answered so when i say really strong smells doesnt make me vomit at all because i have strong stomach and they dont care to asnwer by the way im not autistic by the way because they dont say much at all becuase they find me annoying so im ignoring you which is simple ur not smart at all im leaving

Who cares what they think, they misunderstand so what?

Their are many people out their in the world who are both happy and willing to know you. Don't let yourself get put down by bad experiences.

i dont care ok i want to die

Okay... couple things...
1) This is a very berabara-centric view... You do realize that, in most cases, when people on this board do not reply to something it is not because they are ignoring you. They, most likely, have nothing constructive to contribute to the conversation.

2) In another thread, you stated that you have aspergers... as our understanding of autistic spectrum disorders grows, we have come to realize that Aspergers, Autism and a couple other disorders are actually a spectrum of one disorder... so... by stating you have aspergers, but denying an autism diagnosis, you are doing yourself a disservice.

3) Simply put... often, one autistic spectrum individual cannot stand another... It cannot be helped...

4) it gets better... a wish for death can be the result of emotional trauma... but it gets better if you are willing to train yourself in social and coping skills...

Now... if you really want to die... please... call someone... get help... believe it or not, we care... in our own socially backwards way...

800-273-8255 <--- suicide prevention hotline
http://www.youcannotbereplaced.com/ <-- resources...

f**k... you can even private message me and I can send you my kik id or my phone number and you can text me...

That being said - if you are saying you want to die and don't actually feel that...please stop it... attention seeking tactics like that are unacceptable to some... and can be triggering in others...

I just noticed you are in Australia...

+61 2 9262 1130 <-- suicide prevention
https://www.lifeline.org.au/

Hey Berabara creating a thread and sometimes having no one to reply to it isn't in my eyes a big deal. Recently I created a thread and had no one reply to it either, it doesn't mean that people dislike you. However I am really sorry to hear you are feeling the way you how is life going for you?

i feel really down because im thinking too much information for everyone on this planet i just being boring person idiot my self

whats ur opinion do u think i have aspergers syndrome or not but i dont care im thinking about being negative everyone dont like talking to me or anything like that's why i feel like idiot feel stupid my partner told me that ur not stupid but i tell my self im stupid idiot and everything about my self being feels like no one cares as much i neally cried earlier before thinking about this anxiety increase and and then didnt want to talk anyone at all i was cranky thats why im not Aspie or anything dumb

Not quite sure what you mean by the last part: nothing dumb in being an Aspie or in having any of the conditions here on WP. No need at all to see it as "dumb" - in fact that's offensive.

I also go through rough patches when I think no one cares, including my partner, but realize that people are just so busy they can't be available 100% of the time. Sometimes I briefly throw my toys from the cot, then a few minutes later when my anger or sadness dissolves I pick them up again and re-establish positive focus.

Many of us battle with self esteem and also loneliness issues.

Since I got diagnosed it became a lot easier to cope, in fact.

You know last year I was feeling quite depressed and during that time I thought of myself as being somewhat dumb. I suspected I was going through a cognitive decline and thought of myself as an idiot savant. But the thing is a I grew past that stage and things improved from their later with me discovering I was none of those things. I think it is just that when you are down you sometimes pick up negative perceptions about yourself and think they are true.

what do u mean are you saying im stupid so my mum said putting ur self down thats not good thing and she said your not stupid i was cranky and confused anxious as well do u know what im feeling that makes me feel like im stupid is that true im stupid or just something esle or NT thing or Aspie thing but i dont care what NT saying

Of course he's saying nothing of the sort. You are misreading encouragement as criticism?

I'm saying your not stupid in fact it is probablly the last thing you are. You might be a pessimist, which means you think negatively about situations. I say that because when something happens say, someone doesn't reply to your thread, you thought the worst thing that being that people didn't care for you was the most likely. In addition that negative thinking can be shown as you have posted about being stupid when that is not the case. You might honestly have to put a lid on this kind of thinking, don't let it get to you.

I like you. It's just that I feel that people should choose their words for their titles carefully, when starting topics about others on the spectrum.

We are so glad and privileged to have you here on WP with us, Cockney Rebel!

Your kindness and encouragement to members is valued very highly.

I, Like you regardless of rather you're a aspie or not. Tbh, You're probably just death with heightened senses because of it. My Point is that, I don't care rather your a aspie or neurotypical or whatever. I care more about what the person is like than the neurotype.