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DaneClark
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03 Apr 2017, 4:39 pm

I'm trying to find closure with someone with someone I had alot of tension with in the past. I'm alot healthier than I was before, but she might not know that. And in order for us to really find closure, I need to explain to her some of the crazy selfish things I used to believe and make it absolutely clear that I dont believe these things anymore, which is tricky because alot of the tension between us was caused by me saying crazy things to her and it always makes her nervous



GraysonTerry19
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04 Apr 2017, 6:08 pm

DaneClark wrote:
I'm trying to find closure with someone with someone I had alot of tension with in the past. I'm alot healthier than I was before, but she might not know that. And in order for us to really find closure, I need to explain to her some of the crazy selfish things I used to believe and make it absolutely clear that I dont believe these things anymore, which is tricky because alot of the tension between us was caused by me saying crazy things to her and it always makes her nervous



Okay so in order to try & give advice. What kind of crazy things did you specifically say to her that makes her nervous?



burnt_orange
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04 Apr 2017, 6:23 pm

I understand the sentiment but I think you should leave her alone. If you care about her, and you know this will not benefit her at all. This is for you. Write a letter then burn it.



Keigan
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04 Apr 2017, 6:31 pm

Restraining order?