When I sometimes am with people, ie with a group of people from my residence when were bussing to a church, I find I am alone and everyone is at least in pairs talking to each other, or the guys are all in one group talking to each other. I find it hard to join in other than making a couple of comments here and there about what they are saying. (In general I find it hard to keep up with peoples back and forth conversations, but one on one im getting better). I am often on the outside, probably because I am not friends with them yet. Any social advice? I think I need to study NT's conversations and see how I can mimic them or something.
What I'm really worried about is that my crush is part of the group(who I'm looking to work up the courage to talk to more) will see me as the outsider...
09 Nov 2018, 11:07 pm
