Make a list of things you like about your life

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MrMark
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27 Nov 2007, 7:23 am

With kind acknowledgment to Mw99
01. I don't dwell on Asperger's Syndrome
02. I don't dwell on negative memories; I can't make them go away
03. I don't blame me for being the way I am.
04. My job has nothing to do with the subject I studied in college
05. I'm too comfortable to search for a new job.
06. I think I won't do well in future job interviews for jobs I wouldn't be right for.
07. I'm sure I shouldn't have gone back to college.
08. I make some people feel uncomfortable.
09. Some people avoid me. Thank god!
10. Some people like me.
11. I feel some people don't take me seriously.
12. I am thoughtful in speech.
13. I learned that I can make small talk if I have to.
14. Girls teased me in college.
15. I used to have paranoid thoughts, but not anymore.
16. I suffer from bouts of inexplicable joy.
17. I have stable brain-chemistry.
18. I am financially secure.
19. I don't have goals in life. Life is what happens to you when you're making other plans.
20. I'm closin' in on 50. I'm no virgin.
21. I'm sure I don't care about losing my virginity.
22. Some people automatically assume that something is wrong with me.
23. I have a hard time reading people, so I ask.
24. I think most people are either stupid, immature or terribly deluded, so I do what I can to help them, like I would help a child.
25. I doubt my own intelligence sometimes. My (ex)wife used to have to remind me that I was a hellava lot smarter than other people.
26. I have friends one or two, from the old days.
27. I no longer feel guilty for being the way I am
28. I have a girlfriend
29. I'll probably have a girlfriend in the future.
30. I'm not very unattractive.
31. I'm not very overweight.
32. I have not very bad teeth.
33. I have not very bad skin.
34. My hairline is finally starting to recede.
35. I am not too tall.
36. My you-know-what is not too large.
37. I suck at playing sports.
38. I suck at playing video games, especially online video games with other people.
39. I like puzzles.
40. I have poor short-term memory when I smoke pot.
41. I have a hard time processing too much information.
42. I'm a slow reader.
43. I have an unrealistic desire.
44. Sometimes I talk out loud when I am alone.
45. I number everything.
46. I don't have the need to organize all the things I've listed on this list in a coherent manner.
47. I currently don't have any uninteresting hobby.
48. My hobbies are short-lived.
49. Some people on this forum won't take me seriously after reading this post.
50. I love the fact that for some strange reason, I felt the need to compile this list.
51. I have a lazy vocabulary.
52. I have any talent when I practice.
53. I'd like to have 100 items on this list.
54. The other day some kids laughed at me.
55. I play with paper clips.
56. I stim sometimes.
57. I don't suck at everything I do.
58. I have been accused of being ret*d.
59. I have been accused of being normal.
60. I have been accused of thinking I am a genius.
61. I have been accused of being a genius, but this makes me laugh, because the persons who told me I am a genius are clearly not overly intelligent.
62. I like being a genius.
63. I have been accused of being a homosexual. (I am not, but my best friend is).
64. I have been accused of being a momma's boy.
65. I have been accused of doing stuff I did not do, prior to the accusation.
66. I fear very little.
67. Some people think that I think I'm better than they are.
68. I don't like going to parties.
69. I like rituals.
70. I know how to invest my money.
71. I rarely feel buyer's remorse after I invest money.
72. I feel lucky when I read/hear about people's problems.
73. It's 7am; I only need to list 27 more items on this list before I get to go to work.
74. Some people will like this thread.
75. Maybe I don't have AS.
76. I didn't learn it was possible I have AS until I was 48.
77. I give some people dirty looks.
78. I talk to some people condescendingly.
79. I snap at some people to get their attention.
80. I don't have a bad attitude.
81. Some people care about me.
82. I like my neighborhood.
83. I am successful.
84. I will add 100 items to this list.
85. I feel uncertainty.
86. After typing this list up, I came back to my senses and decided I wasn't going to post it.
87. At the last moment, I changed my mind about this list and decided I was going to post it anyway.
88. I'm decisive.
89. I feel spiritual.
90. I'm getting a check up tomorrow.
91. I can resist eating candy during the holidays,
92. When I watch television, I only watch positive and upbeat programs.
93. I believe that out of pain come some of life's greatest blessings.
94. I can break patterns by changing my routine.
95. I have a secret nickname.
96. I live in the moment.
97. Who I am inside is much greater than who I appear to be.
98. I make my own Christmas cards.
99. I fill my mind and other's with powerful healing thoughts.
100. 100


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27 Nov 2007, 8:27 am

POSITIVE, thanks for your post, i copy and pasted it and will take it home to draw parallels with



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27 Nov 2007, 8:32 am

What a nice gratitude list, thanks for sharing it MrMark! I haven't done one of those in a long time, and I'm pretty sure I never thought long and hard enough to come up with 100, but after work today I'm going to try - thanks for the inspiration!



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27 Nov 2007, 8:48 am

MrMark wrote:
65. I have been accused of doing stuff I did not do, prior to the accusation.

LOL.

Let's see...

1. I know what my passion/talent is in life, which gives me a sense of direction.
2. For all my social difficulties, I am always there for my true friends.
3. I have true friends.
4. I am okay being alone! (Life is much easier this way, I think.)
5. I appreciate art; it helps me feel connected to the world.
6. I'm open-minded.
7. I am lucky enough to have met someone who is smart and open-minded and interested in discussing the same things as me, and even if this person disappears from my life, at least I know these types of people exist so I don't feel so alone in the world!
8. Some things come easily to me...
9. Even though I'm shy, I know and like who I am. (Sometimes I even like being shy.)
10. I love where I'm from!
11. I love that I'm able to study abroad.
12. Although I'm scared of some things most people are okay with, I'm also brave enough to do some things others would fear - and these things that I CAN do are most important to me.
13. I believe in God.
14. I'm a girl. (I like it anyway, though guys are cool too, LOL.)
15. I have the perfect pet!
16. I'm an optimist.
17. I view the world in a unique way, and it works for me.

That's all I can come up with now that aren't too personal, haha. This is a good idea, MrMark!



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27 Nov 2007, 9:55 am

1. My family
2. My job
3. My pets
4. The Siamese Internet Cat Club and WP
5. Ability to read and retain information well
6. Ability to communicate through writing
7. Good food
8. Having a role model like Roger Bannister to look up to when things get hard, and to know he overcame difficulties. It gives me hope for the future.



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27 Nov 2007, 10:01 am

1. The fact that I'm not a greedy manipulative NT.



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27 Nov 2007, 12:42 pm

1. my good looks. i look like a greek god
2. i have great taste in tv programs
3. i have the ichiro rookie card in my avatar
4. i dont have AIDS
5. i'm healthy, besides not sleeping well
6. i have an imaginary twin brother



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27 Nov 2007, 3:06 pm

1. My kids
2.My ability to keep going even when I don't want to.
3. I have a job that I'm able to support us at w/ only about 20 hours a week
4.The Tony Knowles Coastal Bike Trail in Alaska
5.I'm reasonably healthy
6. I quit smoking 2 packs a day 10 mos. ago
7. I still love to "learn"
8. I can adapt to new situations cause I see them all as "another adventure"
9. I still have "hope" for humanity and haven't turned into a complete cynic
10. I live as "green" as I can and am always trying to do a little more.
11. Finding out about AS and realizing that there was a REASON I am the way I am.
12. Stumbling into WP and finding acceptance.
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27 Nov 2007, 7:00 pm

1. Cool people in my life. I have friends, I have family. . . I have an awesome boyfriend. . . I have a great cat. . .

2. The place where I live is often breathtakingly beautiful

3. I have a sense of direction in my life

4. My material needs are mostly cared for

5. I've been able to chase my dream of learning how to dance for two years

6. Music

7. Books

8. Food

9. Writing, and I guess intellectual stimulation in general. . .

10. The internet

11. Did I mention the awesome people in my life?


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27 Nov 2007, 7:56 pm

1. I have pretty awesome friends who realise when I need them without me always having to ask them for it.
2. I have a fantastic kid.
3. My fantastic kid knows how to keep me going even when I don't think I can go one step further.
4. My mom is actually easier to get along with now that she understands that there's a word for my weirdity and she recognizes that some of the issues that my son and I have are hers only multiplied.
5. I have a great sense of humour that I passed down to my son.
6. I am an expert time waster and can very easily divert myself and I play well with myself (LOL).
7. I have a great imagination and can write well.
8. I can easily avoid things that I can't deal with by being absorbed in something else. Completely. Totally. Without guilt.


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27 Nov 2007, 8:35 pm

1. My pets.
2. The great people I have met online.
3. The fact that I can die at any time I want.


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28 Nov 2007, 10:36 am

Good list, MR Mark!! ! HEre's mine.
1. I am awake
2. I am dressed
I will come up with 100, but I think I will just repeat 1 and 2 over and over again.
I finally got the link to work!



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28 Nov 2007, 12:59 pm

what i like about my life

being able to walk, that's good.
thumpy black boots to stride around in.
mini crispy acorns crunching underfoot
shiny light-filled xmas decorations, and little painted wooden characters to hang from tree but put in groups around the room
the colour of this room ( turquoise and creamy pink) now i've painted out the orange and purple bits, and my bedroom ( turquoise and white).
being able to watch films in english again now DVDs exist!!
my son most of the time
his father very occasionally because at least this way i don't have to work in some horrible job
internet access, Rotten Tomatoes, and wrongplanet
"Tim and Tom", " Tyger", " Eat your peas" and "Rockfish", also "Delivery" and other
beautiful animated shorts.
Stones
Wood ( worn, smooth)
Huge old and thin young trees, and sunshine
Films and music that i love
BOOKS
being able to draw , REALLY WELLL!! ! :lol:
the fact that food is still interesting
the telephone
the colour silver
living in the medieval heart of a little french village in the north of Provence.
that i'm beginning to think that i could go on for ever.....

8O :lol:
Thank you for the thread, Mr Mark!
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