Never The Middle

Post Reply New Topic

When it comes to relationships and socializing I seem to be at one end of the scale or the other. Sometimes I can be very perceptive about what is going on with people I know or I may see a couple together and figure they will or will not make stay together.

But when it comes to me and interacting with others I can be gulliable, I overanalyze/ocd on almost everything I do and say, make mountains out of molehills *which sometimes makes a situation worse then it actually is* and so I can't get a true feel how to react or not react. Maybe I can potentially see others issues or life happenings quicker then my own, because I ruminate too much on the negative side of a situation. I dunno anyone else get this rambling

Yep, yep. I'm always to one extreme or the other. Not just in social situations either.

So does this make NTs more balanced then Aspie and there in lies are problems during social interaction?

I've been told this many times:

My personality is definitely unbalanced.

Not in a bad way, but my mental focussing powers seem to be extreme.
There has to be a trade-off somewhere.

I hear you. I havn't found the trade off yet. As of now I am a stay at home, because I have not found a job I feel successful doing and that I fit. And that I'm at least respected if nothing else.