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Proud aspie or not?
Poll ended at 08 Feb 2006, 4:59 pm
Si/Yes 36%  36%  [ 26 ]
Si/Yes 36%  36%  [ 26 ]
No/No 14%  14%  [ 10 ]
No/No 14%  14%  [ 10 ]
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09 Jan 2006, 4:59 pm

Are you a proud aspie in terms of knowing who you are and not being ashamed?

This is a poll so you don't neccessarily have to rant on why you are ashamed or not.

Gracias.



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09 Jan 2006, 5:27 pm

I am proud in a humble way for having AS nothing special in the end about Me.


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09 Jan 2006, 5:28 pm

kewl.

I second that response. But I think I am special in terms of the obivious difference I am around others in every respect.

But that is my internal pride.



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09 Jan 2006, 5:38 pm

Being NT, I can't vote, but I'd like to rant anyway :D My girlfriend is AS, and while I wouldn't exactly say I'm "proud" of it, we're certainly not ashamed, and I'm extremely proud of the brave way she's dealt with finding out about it (we found out just a week ago, as I was talking about in another topic). It doesn't make her any less of a person in my eyes, and I couldn't possibly love her any more than I do now.



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09 Jan 2006, 5:52 pm

I'd have been happiest with a neutral option to pick.

"I yams what I yam" as a great existential philosopher once put it.

And what I can do and think is more valuable to me than being at one with the mass.
Life near the edge of the bell-curve.



(added in edit: my vote was on the "proud", give the choice)



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09 Jan 2006, 5:55 pm

Since I had a little diffulcuties with that, are you more happier or less happier with the options you do have?

oh,you voted proud.



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09 Jan 2006, 6:19 pm

Some would consider me the most militant Aspie alive if they took the time to look at my website. But that is kinda beside the point----yes, I am proud of the strengths that AS brings to me. Very proud.



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09 Jan 2006, 7:04 pm

No.



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09 Jan 2006, 7:39 pm

Bland-Evidently I have nothing to be proud of because I dont fit into any slot. Apparently, Im not an "Aspie", my autism quotient being quite low, but must just be a bona fide weirdo!! I guess I could be proud to be a bona fide weirdo. Maybe I should change my user name to Bonafideweirdo!??



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09 Jan 2006, 8:16 pm

im not proud or ashamed.

As ive stated elsewhere, neither sentiment is relevant to an accident of birth, at least in a lucid sense.



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10 Jan 2006, 12:41 am

Bland wrote:
Bland-Evidently I have nothing to be proud of because I dont fit into any slot. Apparently, Im not an "Aspie", my autism quotient being quite low, but must just be a bona fide weirdo!! I guess I could be proud to be a bona fide weirdo. Maybe I should change my user name to Bonafideweirdo!??


I guess.



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10 Jan 2006, 3:34 am

I'm not sure I'd say that I am actually ashamed of it; I think I've come to terms with AS and recognize it confers both advantages and disadvantages. That said, I haven't talked to anyone outside of my immediate family about it, and I take steps to repress any outward signs of it during social interactions. I don't think ashamed is the right word to describe it, perhaps "insecure"...



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10 Jan 2006, 3:44 am

Bland wrote:
Bland-Evidently I have nothing to be proud of because I dont fit into any slot. Apparently, Im not an "Aspie", my autism quotient being quite low, but must just be a bona fide weirdo!! I guess I could be proud to be a bona fide weirdo. Maybe I should change my user name to Bonafideweirdo!??


You are what you are.



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10 Jan 2006, 5:33 am

I am ashamed of the condition.

Mainly because how people treat you when they find out.



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10 Jan 2006, 8:09 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I am ashamed of the condition.

Mainly because how people treat you when they find out.


Then it is them that have the problem, not you.



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10 Jan 2006, 1:26 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I am ashamed of the condition.

Mainly because how people treat you when they find out.


Here's a question for you. Disregarding how other people feel about aspergers, how do you
truly feel about it? And there I believe is your real answer... in my opinion. :wink: