Being NT, I can't vote, but I'd like to rant anyway
My girlfriend is AS, and while I wouldn't exactly say I'm "proud" of it, we're certainly not ashamed, and I'm extremely proud of the brave way she's dealt with finding out about it (we found out just a week ago, as I was talking about in another topic). It doesn't make her any less of a person in my eyes, and I couldn't possibly love her any more than I do now.