quirk ruins impression

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I hate that. Whenever someone sees me for the first time, they see a handsome guy that is a potential mate, but whenever they see my quirks, it just turns them off. As I talk, they hear my annoying voice, which is monotone. My walks sometimes turns them on because I walk without confidence.

Does anybody else have that problem?

Don't you mean 'turns them off'?

To the OP, that's me too. Chicks dig me at first, but I know it won't last. Same problems you mentioned- how I talk and how I walk. The walk I can compensate for sometimes, but the way I talk is often serious and self-conscious, and I'm not like other people, so they sense that and distance themselves. Sucks man- I don't know what works for you, but I've resigned myself to having a smaller selection.

Chicks dig me (sometimes I think) until they hear my old reputation(as a weirdo). I don't think this reputation truely suits me. Social deficits can make people say and do a lot of crazy, stupid things, okay? I don't earn this reputation with people I meet now, but guys just love to be like, "Once in grade 8...and that's what he's like."

same here

and i cant chitchat, so i start to blabber heavy duty talk, which is an immediate turnoff
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