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Well, she's coming over to my house tomorrow, her fur babies are going to meet my fur babies (dogs). Wish me luck!

Fabulous Story, Olive Oil. A lesson for us all!

So, Reba came over about 2:45,( she let me know she'd be late). She was wearing a white Tank top and tiny little red shorts. I think she is proud of her hooters. She is a 51-year-old little Hottie. When she got here she seemed unhappy or irritable or something and I asked her if it was something I'd done or said and she said no, it was because she wasn't feeling well. That's pretty much how things went during our hour-long visit. I showed her around and she showed "light" interest. Finally, she said, "I'm sorry Paul, I'm just feeling really crappy. I want to go home and lie down in the dark for a while". I said "no problem" and walked her to her car and Hugged her goodbye.


When I got in the house, I sent her this message:

"Dear Reba:

Thank you for coming to see me even though you were feeling sick. Sometimes, after these medical incidents you find that you can't do your usual amount of "stuff" for a while. Take it easy and try not to push yourself too hard. If you need anything don't hesitate to call me, I'd be happy to help. If, God forbid, you need to go to the Hospital again, call me too, I can give you a ride.

Paul"

Normally I would consider this kind of note pandering, but I thought that given her recent medical problems it was legitimate. What do you think.?

I have been pondering some of Reba's behaviour and now I am wondering if she might be a closet alcoholic.

Who is this HOT woman? Is she a relative of BRIAN BLESSED?

The letter was so perfect, thoughtful and considerate...such a kind gesture to her. I bet she loved it.

Glad things are going well. As long as you keep your heart in the right place (towards her mind, rather than her body, though she may be hot) I have a great feeling things will go well.

OK, here's the latest:

After 3 days of silence on her part, today I received this message from Reba, excuse the spelling, she is Dyslexic:

"hi Paul, l was upset when u wouldent stop your dog from
jumping on my back to the couch over and over.
u are a nice man and careing l guss
hope u can think about this about me not feeling good
and u dident stop him.
please think about that

Reba!"

In response, I sent this Message:


Hi Reba:

That's what this was about, then? I am very sorry about that. It seems obvious when you state it in those terms. You may have discovered an aspect of my Asperger's Syndrome there. We (Aspies) sometimes miss obvious stuff like that. It's like, Machu jumping on me doesn't bother me so why would it bother anyone else? Of course, I should have noted your distress and done something about it.

I apologize for this, Reba. Please don't take that incident as a sign I don't care. If you want evidence I care, read the note I sent you on Friday. I imagine many men over the years have been interested in "Reba, the Hot Mama" but I want to tell you I do care about and like the Reba inside as well. Once again, I apologize.

Paul


I wonder what will happen next?

Seems a bit of a case of opposites attract. I remember I had a neighbor who thought I was like the smartest person ever, he was dyslexic, and I have NVLD. Both the opposite thought patterns. Dyslexia a lot of times can make you an extreme visual thinker, and NVLD makes you an extreme verbal thinker.

See how it all plays out I guess. I don't think there'd be many girls who'd put up with me for very long.

Reba did not respond to my Apology.

Although I think it will be futile, I am going to attempt to contact her tonight. I'd just like to bring some closure to this thing. The problem is, I don't know if she has been legitimately ill of if she is just playing games. I would be better able to tailor my approach if I knew. This has got to be the worst aspect of dating for an Aspie, this nonsensical game playing.

I it just me or does anyone else think this thread is strange??????

More like a Blog, lol. A Blog about a sad dating experience.

This one time, at bandcamp, i became friendly with a 'hot' girl. I didnt really understand what was happening, i was lost in the feeling. She would wait for me to finish work so i could walk her home. She kissed me goodbye one time then it all just stopped. I was confused. Only a week or so of her ignoring me made me realise that she wasnt really that attractive. She seemed to have lost the glow that first made me attracted to her.
These days i find myself attracted to 'regular' girls. I see a problem with this, anyone could ask "so you dont really find them attractive, then?" but i do. I really like the normal look; not too hot, not to cold. I want a girlfriend who looks family. You know?

Yeah, generally I consider a preoccupation with looks to be a rather shallow thing. I probably would have liked this woman anyway, but her physical assets kind of added a certain mind-blowing element to the whole thing. Believe me, I know, Large Breasts are no basis for a Relationship.

On the other hand, a childhood friend of mine recently started messaging me through Facebook. She is plainly intelligent and has a wicked sense of humour. I thought to myself, "This, is the type of woman I should be going after, someone you would want as a friend anyway".

OK, I got my closure:

"Paul l think you are avery nice man, and l hope you
find that special wonman for you.
Good luck on your fishing

Reba....Chear!"

I think I am going to take David DeAngelo's advice now:

"If you've tried being a "nice guy" with women over and over but you end up banging your head against the wall...
...maybe it's time you tried a different approach - one that actually WORKS".

Happy paul - I see you're still blogging over here - does it feel like you're talking to yourself?