Don't feel the love.

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I have been married to my husband for 4 years now and love him so much. I just have a hard time feeling it, I don't know how to show it either. I don't enjoy cuddling and hugging I have space and sensory issues. How is a person like me suppose to express there love? How do other aspies express love?

By now, if you are indeed appropriately matched, this is working itself out. You are getting to know one another's moods, signals, etc.

Herself and I are both fringe spectrals, with different sense space talk styles and issues. We do very well after 25+ years.

Do not spend more time than you can help eworrying you are doing it wrong, not feeling it right, not expressing enough. Be who you are 0- each couple, each individual is unique.

If you just said to him once a year what you put in the post, I suspect that would more than suffice.

I think it will get better in time, maybe we are just in a rut. I think if he understood aspergers and ADHD it would easier.