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10 Oct 2008, 4:40 pm

Is there something wrong when I'm not even surprised by this sort of thing anymore? :(

While I haven't been through what this poor girl has, I've had some nast experiences with school.

I've been slapped in the face by a student, threatened with bodily harm, and once had a teachers' aide slap me on the ass in highschool (I raised hell about that one and got suspended for a week). And of course, it was all my fault. :? Nothing was ever done. :roll:

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As far as the other kids watching and laughing, haven't you ever found yourself doing that when you didn't want to? It's hard to stand up to group pressure and takes practice.


Absolutely not! :? I knew better.



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11 Oct 2008, 7:04 am

This is mortifying.

I was going to say something controversial, but I didn't want to offend anyone. Nevertheless, I think we need far more respect than we currently get.


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11 Oct 2008, 7:11 am

Amazing. This kid raped a girl on the playground while other children watched, and he still is going to the school. Just more of the concept that the laws of society don't apply to inside a schoolhouse. Absolutely repulsive. I just can't wrap my mind around this, the faculty has to know this has been going on. The little sadist deserves to be locked away, he preys on people like a animal preys on other animals. I don't know what I would do if it was my daughter. I'd pull her out of the school, maybe go on Oprah. I don't know, I mean if she didn't want me to go on Oprah I wouldn't but it's like, something people should know about. Like they should go on Oprah or Dr. Phil and humiliate the school.



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22 Feb 2012, 1:01 pm

This is outrageously wrong. The boy should be arrested and charged with rape, regardless of his age. The school ought to be sued, especially since they failed to protect her after the incident. Oh, and (sarcasm on) I just loved the way the principal or whoever it was tried to blame the mother (I think it was the mother) by saying "You brought this on yourself by calling the police" (sarcasm off).


On top of that, this was done while the other students were watching, so they handled this way below just plain "poorly", they handled it atrociously. I wouldn't say the lack of response is anything new, though. Most schools generally turn a blind eye to bullying of any sort, but especially sexual harassment/rape/bullying of a sexual nature, often because that subject is considered "taboo" by society as a whole, the same way spousal abuse is. Most children generally don't know much about this sort of thing, as parents often have the idea of "They're children, they don't need to know about (this/that/the other)", and thus feel the need to shelter their kids. That said, even a 9-year-old should know that rape is a serious crime that should be dealt with accordingly.


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22 Feb 2012, 5:08 pm

LiberalJustice wrote:
This is outrageously wrong. The boy should be arrested and charged with rape, regardless of his age.
I wonder what eventually happened, though? This thread was started Sun Aug 24, 2008 and was last updated Sun Nov 23, 2008.


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28 Feb 2012, 7:46 am

2008...Man, That brings back Highschool memories. I thought reviving old topics was against the law.


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01 Mar 2012, 5:01 am

LiberalJustice wrote:
This is outrageously wrong. The boy should be arrested and charged with rape, regardless of his age. The school ought to be sued, especially since they failed to protect her after the incident. Oh, and (sarcasm on) I just loved the way the principal or whoever it was tried to blame the mother (I think it was the mother) by saying "You brought this on yourself by calling the police" (sarcasm off).


On top of that, this was done while the other students were watching, so they handled this way below just plain "poorly", they handled it atrociously. I wouldn't say the lack of response is anything new, though. Most schools generally turn a blind eye to bullying of any sort, but especially sexual harassment/rape/bullying of a sexual nature, often because that subject is considered "taboo" by society as a whole, the same way spousal abuse is. Most children generally don't know much about this sort of thing, as parents often have the idea of "They're children, they don't need to know about (this/that/the other)", and thus feel the need to shelter their kids. That said, even a 9-year-old should know that rape is a serious crime that should be dealt with accordingly.


Yes, it is a tragic comedy, the world we live in.

And people wonder why the victim is always blamed. Just look at the way the people in power, the people in authority, the people who are supposed to be moral, failed to respond morally and decently. It really any wonder this world is screwed up. The fact is victim blaming is the norm and not the exception. I see this trend as slowly changing, hopefully things are better since 2008, although probably not much better.



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09 Mar 2012, 5:41 am

None of the "grown ups" in this story seem to have behaved like responsible adults



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22 Apr 2012, 8:54 am

this is sick that boy should be locked up,


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22 Apr 2012, 10:32 am

That's intresting they brought it on themselves by trying to take action? wow this disgusts me....I mean not only is that terrible, but what kind of a school official or whatever actually justifies due to someone trying to take action against it. I loath people like that, they're the ones who helped make my childhood hell, because it was my fault I got bullied because I couldn't be 'normal' well yeah this pisses me off.....I almost want to write a nice little letter to that school about how sick, twisted and screwed up they are.


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22 Apr 2012, 10:35 am

angelofdarkness wrote:
this is sick that boy should be locked up,


He should probably be evaluated by a psychiatrist first......I mean as screwed up as this whole thing is, it needs to be investigated what is going on with him. There is no justification, but most 12 year olds would not do something like that so there could be something wrong.


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22 Apr 2012, 11:52 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
angelofdarkness wrote:
this is sick that boy should be locked up,


He should probably be evaluated by a psychiatrist first......I mean as screwed up as this whole thing is, it needs to be investigated what is going on with him. There is no justification, but most 12 year olds would not do something like that so there could be something wrong.


oh yeah i forgot about that oops


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22 Apr 2012, 12:08 pm

This is (expletive deleted) sick. The kid should be charged, the principal should be fired and barred from any profession involving supervision of children.

How come the law & order types are always so keen to come down hard on anyone they perceive as a misfit, but always so ready to excuse (and often actually contribute to) bad behaviour from people perceived as socially dominant?

Sending the girl back to the school, what a horror show.



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22 Apr 2012, 12:48 pm

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Hi all - sorry I only spotted this thread now. This happened in South Africa (where I'm from). I followed this story in order to assist where I can. It turned out that the mother has munchausens by proxy. Please read the rest of the saga click here.

It is so completely horrible: the whole story and the fact that it could or could not have been fabricated, in the end. The school's lack of appropriate response, whichever turns out to be the truth, is unforgivable, though.

I have made available an open channel of support for this family and nobody has taken it up. I have sent personal messages to the sister of this child and she is so absorbed in her own psychological dramas, she just never responded. In the meantime, I have no idea what is happening to the child (in fact, no idea whether she is aspie, even).

For all of those that had abuse happen to them (as children or adults): I am so sorry. Please speak up. And when you grow up, please do not let it go, keep speaking up. Family and school authorities really can screw things up. YOU are the one that must make the truth known.

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24 Apr 2012, 2:16 pm

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I don't care if he has taken his Ritalin or not. The little sociopath should be tried in court then locked up as a sexual predator. The psychologist and the principal should be held for gross negligence by a court of law.


From someone who is both AS and ADD, Ritalin alone doesn't take away a person's free will, from my experience, nor is it a coping mechanism from feeling frustrated either. It does address some of the temporary wanderings from reality that make life irritating when say, you mess up while hearing multiple lines of command from others, but it is not a question of curing your inclination and/or carrying out depraved acts like this.

Chances also are this kid was fantasizing or doing some rediculous porn crap while his ineffective parents let whatever their son was doing just go by without any discipline whatsoever.



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24 Apr 2012, 2:35 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
angelofdarkness wrote:
this is sick that boy should be locked up,


He should probably be evaluated by a psychiatrist first......I mean as screwed up as this whole thing is, it needs to be investigated what is going on with him. There is no justification, but most 12 year olds would not do something like that so there could be something wrong.


It's likely that his parents or other significant siblings were treating him either in an abusive or neglecting manner.
(i.e. either they let fly the fact that he was getting involved with explicit material or behaving in a certain way, without much if any discipline, or the parents siblings treated him in a rather cruel way.