Does this go along with avoidan personality disorder?

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I can be a grate person and very nice and grate at understand others.
But i can see threw people like a book and sometimes without them saying much of a word just because i all ready get it.
lets say my feelings take over me and i become a real b***h it's not that i want to be a b***h but i will become one without knowing.
ill point out your wrongs and rights right on the spot if there arguable. and end up makeing the person cry. and for some strange reastion i care after that there sad but!
I still dont say much and i will say there wrongs to there face...even though i dont want them upset.
I have done this to many people before and its hard for me because on my end 3 things set it off. "If i feel your attacking me" or another person. and if i feel like there not understanding me but i have them.
i know i have been pushed around and harassed like i could never tell because it was that bad. but its been online and ofline and that may set of the feeling i am being attacked.
so ill attack back with understanding that some people are not ready to here yet.
question is: is this part of my personality disorder? if not what is it? i know its not just me because if someone close to me says there not ready to here that side! then ill stop.

I think that people with Avoidance tend to avoid confrontation at all costs. I know I, myself, back away from arguments the minute I see it coming. I just took an online test. Here are my scores.
Paranoid |||||||||||||||| 62% 50%
Schizoid |||||||||||||||||||| 82% 40%
Schizotypal |||||||||||||||||||| 90% 56%
Antisocial |||||| 30% 46%
Borderline |||||||||||||||||| 78% 45%
Histrionic |||||| 22% 35%
Narcissistic |||||||||| 38% 40%
Avoidant |||||||||||||||||| 74% 48%
Dependent || 10% 44%
Obsessive-Compulsive |||||||||||||||||||| 82% 45%

Link to Personality Test

Well, it doesn't sound like a part of AvPD.
If I were you, I would discuss that with a shrink to find out.

A vid I like about AvPD, that explains it very well:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHHe6aH1UP0[/youtube]

Yeah i know i was diognossed with it i have been with many things but this is the closest peoples came to it but i have no clue.
i just asked because sometimes i wonder if theres more to something then there is said when you look it up.
u get what i mean?

Possible.
If I were you I would go to a shrink and talk to him/her about it to find out.
At least I'm like this, always want to know what's going on and stuff. It helped me a lot to understand myself better.

i have over 3 times.

That's a very moving video.

AvPD could just as well be a way of looking at my personal history, just as Asperger's fits to a certain extent, and a bunch of other things.

And what did they say?

Actually psychiatric diagnoses are just categories to explain human behaviour. Some behaviour you have might fall out of the diagnostic categories you got, others fit. So there are different possibilities:
1) try to explain this behaviour through another diagnostic category
2) try to explain it through the diagnoses you already got
3) just accept it, that the human brain isn't that easy to be fully explained by some diagnoses