Songs, Anthems, and Music for Women
They say if you fly to the Wrong Planet, then right and straight on til morning, you get to Barbieland...
"Closer to Fine" by the Indigo Girls
I stopped by the bar at 3 A.M.
To seek solace in a bottle or possibly a friend
And I woke up with a headache like my head against a board
Twice as cloudy as I'd been the night before
And I went in seeking clarity
I went to the doctor, I went to the mountains
I looked to the children, I drank from the fountains
We go to the doctor, we go to the mountains
We look to the children, we drink from the fountain
Yeah, we go to the Bible, we go through the workout
We read up on revival, we stand up for the lookout
There's more than one answer to these questions
Pointing me in a crooked line
And the less I seek my source for some definitive
(The less I seek my source)
Closer I am to fine
https://youtu.be/HUgwM1Ky228?si=s3EHjQVJSKRVokNu
The big-boned girl was proud!
K.D. Lang, "Big Boned Gal"
She was a big boned gal from southern Alberta
You just couldn't call her small
And you can bet every Saturday night
She'd be heading for the legion hall
She put her blue dress on and she curled her hair
Oh, she's been waiting all week
With a bounce in her step and a wiggle in her walk
She'd be swinging down the street
But you could tell she was ready by the look in her eye
As she slipped in through the crowd
She walked with grace as she entered the place
The big boned gal was proud
Now people would come from miles around
Gather there to dance
But when the big boned gal came shufflin' in
She'd hold them in a trance
Hey, hey, the big boned gal
Ain't no doubt she's a natural
Shakin' and a'snakin'
And a'breakin' up across the floor
Reelin' and a'rockin'
Yelling out for more
https://youtu.be/_Knet6FCkRU?si=smH4M6ctuoqcZppb
Someone already posted Leonard Cohen. But here's another deep-voiced Canadian troubadour who, at the right time for the right person, is empowering. Is she empowering for you?
"Girl on a Road" by Ferron
My momma was a waitress,
My daddy a truckdriver.
The thing that kept their power from them
Slowed me down awhile.
I remember the morning
That was the closing of my youth,
When I said goodbye to no one
And in that way faced my truth
And a walk along the river
And a rain a'coming down
And a girl on a road
There's a rhythm to a highway
To match the rhythm of your fears.
My shopping bag possessions scattered
With my splattered tears.
A string of nights in truck stops
And in darkness and in lies
And a man they all called Tigerboy
He just had to show me why.
He just had to give me something
I'd forever understand
As a girl on a road.
Rain upon the water
Makes footprints sunk in sand
Anger upon angry hurt
Take me by the hand
Take me by the heartstrings
And pull me deep inside
And say I'm one with your forgiveness
And separate from my pride
I don't know what it's like for you
But here's what it's like for me...
I wanted to turn beautiful
And serve eternity
And never follow money
Or love with greasy hands,
Or move the earth and waters
Just to make it fit my plans
My eyes would be the harbor,
My words the perfect place
For a girl on a road
I met you in the summer,
I left you in the fall.
In between we did some living
I like to think that's all
But now I see words can be like weapons
No matter that they're small,
I used three tiny words on you
And then beat it down the hall.
Does this road go on forever?
Does this terror know no end
For a girl on a road?
You cannot measure what it takes
To mend a withered heart.
They'll tell you at the onset
Everybody does their part.
I did my best to follow
The calling of my soul.
But, it's like that first guitar I played
At the center is a hole,
At the center is a longing
that I cannot understand
as a girl on a road.
But if music be a boulder,
Let me carry it a long while.
Let it turn into a feather,
Let it brush against my smile.
Let the life be somewhat settled
With the life that song has made.
Let there be nothing I am longing for
In some plan I may have made,
In some story quickly written
During a long forgotten time
As a girl on a road.
Rain upon the water
Makes footprints sunk in sand.
Anger upon angry hurt,
Take me by the hand.
Take me by the heartstrings
And pull me deep inside
And say I'm one with your forgiveness
And separate from my pride
https://youtu.be/WZtv13a_2F0?si=5m9VMG4gimhozlG7
"Middle Age Blues Boogie" by The Uppity Blues Women
Well I was looking round and checking out my very best friends
Seems that they'd all taken up with the young young men...
Seems that when you reach around middle age
You don't want a final chapter, you want to write another page...
I need a young man, to drive away my middle-age blues
Well seems like men my age are all married, boring or tied
You got to find a young man if you want to feel desired...
Now some of my friends is worried 'bout what people may say
I say age ain't nothin' but a number the good lord made it that way...
I need a young man, to drive away my middle-age blues
You know he can get it up and he can get on down
He'll help you do the dishes, take you out on the town...
He'll let you navigate cause he ain't worried 'bout seniority
You can tell him where to put it, keeping you happy is his priority
I need a young, young man, to drive away my middle-age blues
Well I'll forget about my arthritis, my backache, my lumbago
That young man makes me tango at the horizontal disco
I'm cleaning out my closet, I'm no longer sentimental
Forget about experience, I'd rather have potential
A young man to drive away my middle age blues
Well, I don't need no reefer, I don't need no cocaine
All I need is a young man to drive me insane...
I'm throwing away my dustmop, got a brand new vacuum cleaner...
I'm no longer taken for granted, my young man's sexy but sweeter...
A young, young man, to drive away my middle-age blues
An old woman don't yell
An old woman don't tell
An old woman don't swell
An she's grateful as hell
I need a young, young man, to drive away my middle-age blues
Age ain't nothin but a number
And like a rare wine, you don't get older, you just get better...
Give me a young young man...
https://youtu.be/jyqZK_YrRSY?si=vTwi-EdLV85KFWgm
Placing my order...
"Love Me Like a Man" Bonnie Raitt
These men that I've been seeing, baby
Got their soul up on the shelf
You know they could never love me
When they can't even love themselves
But I need someone to love me
Someone to really understand
Who won't put himself above me
Who just loves me like a man
I've never seen such losers, darlin'
Even though I tried to find a man who could take me home
Stead of takin' me for a ride
And I need someone to love me
I know you can
Believe me when I tell you
You can love me like a man
They all want me to rock them
Like my back ain't got no bone
I want a man to rock me like my backbone was his own
Darlin', I know you can
Believe me when I tell you
You can love me like a man
I come home sad and lonely
Feel like I wanna cry
I want a man to hold me, not some fool to ask me why
And I need someone to love me
Darlin', I know you can
Don't you put yourself above me
You just love me like a man
https://youtu.be/pXcTDXgzVfU?si=MHp1Ud2-16FolQx1
Bonnie knows what she wants and speaks up...
Barbra Streisand and Donna Summer- "Enough is Enough"
If you've had enough, don't put up with his stuff, don't you do it
If you've had your fill, get the check pay the bill, you can do it
Tell him to just get out,
Nothing left to talk about
Pack his raincoat show him out
Just look him in the eye and simply shout:
Enough is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on no more no
Enough is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now
If you've reached the end,
Don't pretend that is right when it's over
If the feeling is gone don't think twice just move on, get it over
Tell him to just get out, say it clearly, spell it out:
Enough is enough is enough
I can't go on, I can't go on no more no
Enough is enough is enough
I want him out, I want him out that door now
https://youtu.be/ghKxaMkYDZE?si=xA5vGKSqMFrEL8g-
Express Yourself - Madonna
Come on, girls!
Do you believe in love?
'Cause I got something to say about it
And it goes something like this
Don't go for second best, baby
Put your love to the test
You know, you know, you've got to
Make him express how he feels
And maybe then you'll know your love is real
You don't need diamond rings
Or eighteen karat gold
Fancy cars that go very fast
You know they never last, no no
What you need is a big strong hand
To lift you to your higher ground
Make you feel like a queen on a throne
Make him love you 'til you can't come down
Don't go for second best, baby
Put your love to the test
You know, you know, you've got to
Make him express how he feels
And maybe then you'll know your love is real
Long stem roses are the way to your heart
But he needs to start with your head
Satin sheets are very romantic
What happens when you're not in bed?
You deserve the best in life
So if the time isn't right, then move on
Second best is never enough
You'll do much better, baby, on your own
Express yourself
You've got to make him express himself
Hey, hey, hey, hey
So if you want it right now, make him show you how
Express what he's got, oh baby, ready or not
https://youtu.be/8YqsrhOehUI?si=tnuwnXsTIZpBHESe
Joan Baez and Judy Collins - Oh Had I a Golden Thread
https://youtu.be/wX-VqLa0jvg?si=KLxIZU9zMh_e4XdM
This one because of the lovely harmonies and the reverence for women.
LeAnn Rimes - We Can
https://youtu.be/DchKwe4MH44?si=Uz4pM-HNo66cwrC3
I like that this is from "Legally Blonde," a girl-power movie.
Sara Bareilles - Brave
https://youtu.be/QUQsqBqxoR4?si=JN5gJKuXYMuleUiH
Stand Tall Woman - Lisa Taylor, Dapaul Philips
https://youtu.be/agcD-N-WVD8?si=OYtP1MGsFwKHtbvz
Cyndi Lauper - Try a Little Tenderness (Live at the White House)
https://youtu.be/JK9ls-sct78?si=pe7kVJh8YwlYKy11
I love the way she leads the band, and delivers a powerful sermon on how to treat a loved one.
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Brandi Carlile - The Joke
Love this performance, the intensity.
You get discouraged, don't you, girl?
It's your brother's world for a while longer
We gotta dance with the devil...
Call it living the dream, call it kicking the ladder
They come to kick dirt in your face
To call you weak and then displace you
After carrying your baby on your back across the desert
I saw your eyes behind your hair
And you're looking tired, but you don't look scared
Let 'em laugh while they can
Let 'em spin, let 'em scatter in the wind
I have been to the movies, I've seen how it ends
And the joke's on them
https://youtu.be/KJqL1yIm9e0?si=Wbmf7m1FjxxcE3Au
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wmc8bQoL-J0
Destiny’s Child - Survivor
_________________
“The darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.”
— from Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwLRQn61oUY
Demi Lovato - Confident
I used to hold my freak back
Now I'm letting go
I make my own choice
b***h, I run this show
So leave the lights on
No, you can't make me behave
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“The darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.”
— from Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot
Times have changed a lot in terms of people’s views of divorced women since this song came out 50 years ago…unless you’re in a fundie religion.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVlnhB3xPtY
Loretta Lynn - Rated “X”
Well, if you've been a married woman
And things didn't seem to work out
Divorce is the key to bein' loose and free
So you're gonna be talked about
Everybody knows that you've loved once
They think you'll love again
You can't have a male friend
When you're a has-been or a woman
You're rated X
And if you're rated X, you're some kind of gold
Even men turnin' silver try to make
But I think it's wrong to judge every picture
If a cheap camera makes a mistake
And when your best friend's husband says to you
You've sure started lookin' good
You shoulda known he would, and he would if he could
And he will if you're rated X
Well, nobody knows where you're goin'
But they sure know where you've been
All they're thinkin' of is your experience of love
Oh, their minds eat up with sin
The women all look at you like you're bad
The men all hope you are
But if you go too far, you're gonna wear the scar
Of a woman rated X
And if you're rated X, you're some kind of gold
That even men turnin' silver try to make
But I think it's wrong to judge every picture
If a cheap camera makes a mistake
And when your best friend's husband says to you
You've sure started lookin' good
You shoulda known he would, and he would if he could
And he will if you're rated X
Why, us women don't have a chance
'Cause if you've been married, you can't have no fun at all
No, you're rated X
No matter what you do, they're gonna talk about you
Look down their noses
I, I don't know what to think about it
Just give 'em somethin' to talk about, I guess
_________________
“The darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.”
— from Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot
As the black sheep in my family, I needed this song when I was younger.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PMbl7wzhY0
Milck - Black Sheep
Black sheep, cryin' those rebel tears
It's a battle to survive these lonely years
Black sheep, you live up to your name
You've been told for way too long that you're the one to blame
You never mean to hurt yourself or anyone around you
But trouble's like a curse, a curse you didn't choose
The house you're in is like a cage, the walls are full o' rage
It's hard to breathe, but hard to leave
, you'll make a home of your own
(Oh) don't let anyone turn your unique into flaws
(Oh) yeah, you know that I love you the way that you are
(Oh) take those sticks and stones (oh) and make a home of your own
(Oh) every warrior grows from her battles and scars
(Oh) yeah, you know that I love you the way that you are
Black sheep, ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh
Dear black sheep, ooh-ooh-ooh, ooh
It runs deep, it's insatiable
That hunger to be seen and to be understood
Black sheep, they call me that, too
I've wrestled with the dark, but I made it through
And so will you
_________________
“The darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.”
— from Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGIWAuVzOt4
Milck - I Don’t Belong to You ![]()
_________________
“The darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.”
— from Four Quartets by T.S. Eliot
Miley Cyrus - I Can Buy Myself Flowers
No remorse, no regret
I forgive every word you said...
I didn't wanna leave you
I didn't wanna fight
Started to cry, but then remembered I
I can buy myself flowers
Write my name in the sand...
Yeah, I can love me better than
you can.
https://youtu.be/c5fEEX7cGe0?si=eYn0gNJF9tqc7Zw0&t=18
