Feeling narcissistic/insecure. Am I attractive?

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Zolikan
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02 Apr 2012, 7:07 am

Attractive and gorgeous.

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02 Apr 2012, 7:12 am

Surely you know my answer on that one.

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02 Apr 2012, 7:20 am

Oh dear! I do look French, don't I, according to the chart. I never much thought about that. People have told me that I look exactly like my mother, but i didn't equate that with looking French. It didn't matter in France, because I lived in Paris, where just about anyone can find a niche, and no one really bothers to tell you whether you look any way but bad... Maybe I just got on with the wrong crowd. In Antony, I fit in because I'm small and short and a bit dark. As for the asexuality: how could I make that less obvious? I don't go around wearing long dresses and shirts that go up to my chin. I dress comfortably, but my college has a dress code, and I follow it. I've been taken in as people's "projects" time and time again, but I get bored, and/or don't enjoy the clothes or makeup. Besides, to me, looks were not important until a few days ago. Thank you everybody for your input!

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02 Apr 2012, 9:08 am

Loose the pout. Your last avatar with your glasses was hotter.

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02 Apr 2012, 9:16 am

Wolfheart wrote:

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Kinda funny how Wolfheart could guess that so quick by just looking at your avi.

Also just to point out, if you have travelled to various countries, you can usually tell how people differ in nationality by their facial structure. There may not be a great difference in some nationalities but there is enough difference to be able to discern which country they are from.

[img][800:926]http://www.randomwire.com/wp-content/uploads/average-faces-1024x926.jpg[/img]

Should visit Poland one day.

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02 Apr 2012, 12:56 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

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Kinda funny how Wolfheart could guess that so quick by just looking at your avi.

It's a surprisingly good chart. Finnish, Swedish and Russian as well as the Asian women in the pictures have many of the stereotypical features specific to their areas.

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02 Apr 2012, 1:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

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I'm asexual, it seems, although I detest that word because it makes me think of mitosis. I just cannot grasp what people are thinking about me.

Here, i guess this 70% of your problem.

I know, because it's probably mine.

It's in your inability to show sex appeal, since you're asexual then you're normally unable to show it.

I am heterosexual, but women (and people in general) often don't see any sex appeal in me, i know that from their remarks. Back to the school days, I was often thought to be "sexually dysfunctional" or gay, once i was asked by a colleague in high school whether I am able to get an erection or not.

I once overheard my guy trying to convince a girl that I like girls, when i showed up, he was like "tell her that you like girls!", I said yes I do but she didn't sound so convinced! I dunno, maybe I should have grabbed her ass back then? lol

Even to this day, I am still projecting a similar first impression, recently i flirted a woman and she was like "so you can be naughty after all!" in a surprised tone.

So I dunno what to say, what I figured that it's a very unattractive trait I have, maybe next time i should walk around and show my boner to them? lol.

You certainly are not alone ,I would speculate the majority of Aspie men have similar issues.I haven't got a clue how to flirt with a woman or show my interest.

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02 Apr 2012, 3:47 pm

Well I wouldn't worry about how you look as I did this with my weight, was only a little over my ideal weight range and I pretty much didn't eat, only now after a couple of years I found my appetite and my love of food. =] Oh lovely food.
Oh dear... I believe most of my messages appear flirty so I'm gonna cut that out.

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02 Apr 2012, 4:37 pm

Flirty's fine. It's not like I'd notice! Goodness. That could be taken as flirting, too.

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02 Apr 2012, 4:45 pm

Yay for flirty. And yes, I do think that was flirty. You could flirt with me, mon amie!

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02 Apr 2012, 4:48 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

Uprising wrote:

Kinda funny how Wolfheart could guess that so quick by just looking at your avi.

Were these women selected because they have faces considered statistically normative for their countries?
Curious.
I was thinking, it'd seem I could probably make a similar chart just with the faces of 50 randomly-chosen women from all the states

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03 Apr 2012, 8:30 am

Quarky wrote:

Flirty's fine. It's not like I'd notice! Goodness. That could be taken as flirting, too.

J'aime vous... am I saying that right? It's been like 6 or 7 years since I did french and well I assumed that you grew up learning french? I could be wrong of course.

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03 Apr 2012, 10:23 am

Quarky wrote:

... Or maybe they think I'm pretty? ...

I bet that's the reason

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03 Apr 2012, 10:35 am

You look normal. Don't try to get in other people's heads and work them out, you'll only get in yours and mess yourself up.

I like west African girls with full lips.

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03 Apr 2012, 10:52 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:

I think those are morph images. A large number of faces blended together to create a single face with average features. That's why the hair and background appears so blurred. But it's hard to tell if they used a sample group of 5 or 500 people for each image. My guess is closer to 5, and I think the creator used a biased selection of attractive women within a certain age group and with stereotypically ethnic features.

I mean, it's clear to see that all women used for the Swiss and German morph images were blond. In reality, only about 20% of all German people have light-to-medium blond hair (source), so a statistically relevant selection of photos should lead to dark brown hair when morphed together. But the selection bias is even more apparent in the South African image. Last time I checked, there were still some black people living in South Africa

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03 Apr 2012, 10:54 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:

Wolfheart wrote:

Uprising wrote:

Kinda funny how Wolfheart could guess that so quick by just looking at your avi.

Yes

I hope you can post it here when it is complete.

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