Need help to figure out if a girl likes me

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So, Thursday she started to talk about movies with me. After maybe 5 mins of talking about movies, she asked me if there were any movies that I'd like to see.

I said: ''Yes, I'd like to see [....]. Are there any movies that you'd like to see?''

She said: ''I'd like to see [....] too.''

I said ''Oh, would you like to watch it together?''

She said: ''Sure! (smiling and all) Would Friday be okay?'' (not her exact words)

I said: ''Sure. I'll find out the times it plays on Friday and I'll tell you tomorrow.''

She said: ''Ok! See you tomorrow.''

Friday:

Me: ''Hi, [....]. Would [....] be a good time to watch [....]?''

She: ''Hi [....]! (hugs me ) Sure!

We talk about where we meet, if she'd like some pop corn or something while watching, etc. for a few mins more.

At cinema:

Once we meet up, I buy the tickets and etc. and we go in to watch the movie. Once we're at a Romantic scene, we look at eachother and smile at eachother. She then says: ''So, [....], this is like a date, right?''

Me: '"Yeah, it is.''

She: ''Cool. You know, I've been waiting for a long time for you to ask me on a date.''

Me: ''Yeah, sorry. I've been wanting to ask you out for a long time, but I didn't have the courage.''

She: ''It's OK. [....], I really like you.''

Me: ''I really like you too. I've wanted to tell you something for a while: I'm in love with you.'' (I start telling why, giving her compliments about her inside and outside.)

She: ''I'm in love with you too! (She sums up why)

When she was done, we kissed. The movie ended and we kissed and hugged some more and we told eachother that we should go out more.I brought her home and we said bye, cya soon.

Did I make any mistakes? I think it went well , but please say so if I did.

Hey, man, I think she's interested in you and I think your Thursday date went well.

She said she loves you and she agreed that you should go out again. It looks like a very successful first date.

To be honest, I would not have said the "L word" so soon, but what do I know? My inability to show affection is probably the number one reason why I never dated anybody.

P.S.: In case you do not know, this is the "L word" I was referring to:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=233NaQ0l6cc[/youtube]

That is the reaction of an aspie at a laptop when a girl shows interest for the first time!

Sounds like it went great. I wouldn't have professed my love on the first date. That might be coming on strong, but she said it back, so I guess that works for you. Enjoy yourselves.

Wow. Make sure to move slowly. A star that burns twice as bright burns half as long.

I didn't mean to say I love you (yet). I think there's a difference in to be in love and to love. To be in love would be to have a crush on, and to love is like you love a family member. I might be wrong though, but I know it'd have been too early for I love you.

I plan on telling her though, that I'm looking for something serious and not just a few times sex or whatever. With that I'd mean marriage (in a few years), but it's far too early to say that. Should I do that, or should I not? The reason for that would be to avoid a broken heart before I attach myself to her too much.

Slow down. It has been only two days since your date. It is way too early to talk about marriage. Even though you have been friends for a year and one half, you should give some time to know more about her (as you said before, you had no idea of what were her interests until a few days ago; honestly, you barely know each other).

Just. Take. It. Slow.

^What he said. Please don't make the same mistake so many others, myself included, have made by letting the rush of your emotions make you say something too heavy. You like spending time with her, right? Then enjoy it for a while and put thoughts of marriage out of your head for a while. There are stages to everything and it would be pretty silly to ask her about marriage before you are even girlfriend and boyfriend. I would say, keep asking her on dates for a month or two, and then, if it's still going well, ask if she'll be your girlfriend.

Marriage is a financial arrangement just as much as it is about love. You should ask a girl about marriage unless one or both of you has a stable job and can support each other properly. It should not be taken lightly.

If you want to make it clear to her that you're not about just sex, then don't have sex until you tell her that you want a serious relationship. It's as simple as that. There is a middle ground where you aren't having sex, but you also aren't yet serious. That's where I think you should stay for a while.