Men who wants to be the girl in the relationship
Tyri0n wrote:
I'm pretty sure most men do have a problem with dating aspie females. Most NT-aspie relationships discussed on this board appear to be NT female and aspie male.
are you sure, from reading here. women here on wp are dating nt men, left and right. and to be honest, Im shock on number of partners
some of these women here claim. I mean 75 dates in 2 years, I don't even think nt party girls even get to that number in 2years.
unless all women on wp, are the ''alpha female'' of aspergers. then I don't know what to say.
and some women on wp, will say they go to some pizza party or some concert, or some event, somehow end up with a boyfriend,
even though they always complain that creepy guys always hitting on them, which makes no sense to me at all?
so either women here are lying, or they ''hot women'' of the aspie population.
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billiscool wrote:
Tyri0n wrote:
I'm pretty sure most men do have a problem with dating aspie females. Most NT-aspie relationships discussed on this board appear to be NT female and aspie male.
are you sure, from reading here. women here on wp are dating nt men, left and right. and to be honest, Im shock on number of partners
some of these women here claim. I mean 75 dates in 2 years, I don't even think nt party girls even get to that number in 2years.
unless all women on wp, are the ''alpha female'' of aspergers. then I don't know what to say.
and some women on wp, will say they go to some pizza party or some concert, or some event, somehow end up with a boyfriend,
even though they always complain that creepy guys always hitting on them, which makes no sense to me at all?
so either women here are lying, or they ''hot women'' of the aspie population.
I doubt 75 dates in 2 years. Even if this is true, it means they have trouble getting into a relationship. And those must be the very hot ones. The majority of people with Asperger's are not hot. A high proportion of autistic females are asexual or hyposexual, or have "sensory issues" that interfere with good sex. There's no better way to turn off NT men than having these characteristics.
The aspie women with lots of dates probably lower their standards, or are just after sex. You could do this too.
As a guy, if you target the BBW or women with preexisting children, it's likely you could have as many sexual partners as you wanted. Similarly, aspie women could have as many sexual partners as they wanted if they were willing to date creepos and perverts. But BBW's and women with preexisting children are not attractive to you, most likely, just as creeps aren't attractive to them. So both genders end up in the same position, really, and partially by choice.
My Army buddies taught me that the best way to get laid 100% guaranteed is to just show up at a club and find a BBW dancing by herself. That's usually what they're there for. lol. They might be more willing to take a "dominant role" in the relationship, too. So you should consider it, if you can bear to. lmao. Or create a POF account, and your inbox will likely be full of BBW messages in about...a day?
If you want 76 dates, you must develop very low standards.
My Bf is AS. Though I still like being feminine naturally, over time, I had to let go of things/ traditions expected of a girl in the relationship since I was the one who knew about what a relationship called for. I had to sometimes stop everything and take the steering wheel for a while, which is fine and I feel less vulnerable.
cakey wrote:
My Bf is AS. Though I still like being feminine naturally, over time, I had to let go of things/ traditions expected of a girl in the relationship since I was the one who knew about what a relationship called for. I had to sometimes stop everything and take the steering wheel for a while, which is fine and I feel less vulnerable.
what about the sex?
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