Do want a relationship, or want to not want one?

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Do want a relationship, or want to not want one?
I want a relationship. 73%  73%  [ 36 ]
I want not to want a relationship. 27%  27%  [ 13 ]
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calandale
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28 Mar 2007, 3:56 pm

I want one - just not with another human. But, I may have to settle for that, as I don't seem strong enough to get what I desire.



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30 Mar 2007, 11:39 pm

I want to want to not want one if that makes sense. I've never had one and until I've experienced one I want one.


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31 Mar 2007, 2:26 am

I have one. :D



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31 Mar 2007, 4:29 am

I want one, and I think it's going to happen in a few weeks.


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31 Mar 2007, 4:13 pm

I am really not sure. I would like to have someone to love me, but I don't want to feel enough to get hurt.



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01 Apr 2007, 7:55 pm

I guess I do, but I don't really feel like I deserve one.



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01 Apr 2007, 9:37 pm

I have one, although it is long-distance.



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01 Apr 2007, 10:26 pm

Well, I dunno. I have never had a romantic relationship, but these things don't attract me. I don't like men, neither women. Maybe my mom was right when she said I hadn't matured yet.

I don't know how to detect "love clues", my younger sister has helped me to detect insinuations, and I've rejected all romantic proposals.

Now, what I want is to have fun, play videogames and enjoy my single life. I like my single life :)



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02 Apr 2007, 3:46 am

I absolutely want one, desperately even. The majority of people irritate and annoy me, and there are only a small amount I enjoy the company of and trust, which makes the fact that I'm lonely and that I'm completely inept socially infinitely frustrating. :?



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02 Apr 2007, 6:15 am

I'm not fussed, I'm fine single. If something good came along then why not? :)



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04 Apr 2007, 11:24 am

I feel no need for one at all. I don't like people invading my space.



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04 Apr 2007, 11:36 am

GoatOnFire wrote:
I want to want to not want one if that makes sense. I've never had one and until I've experienced one I want one.


Makes perfect sense.


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04 Apr 2007, 11:41 am

hannahd wrote:
I feel no need for one at all. I don't like people invading my space.


That's where I'm at. Getting into a relationship means having an open audit of your life. (For me, anyway, because I'm not into casual sex -- only marital.)


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04 Apr 2007, 3:28 pm

I'm not really bothered or desperate with "going out" with a girl at the moment. I actually to be honest don't care if I'll never find a significant other. I won't be at all surprised. 8)



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04 Apr 2007, 4:21 pm

I am not sure what I want to be honest. I am now in this predicament because someone has asked me out and we have spent a nice day here and there going out to cinema and to the pizza place. We get on really well - has Aspie traits too - I just cannot get my head to thinking of being more than friends and this very nice person wants us to be more than friends in time. I just cannot imagine having to have someone around me all the time unless they were really autonomous and didn't need too much from me.



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08 Apr 2007, 6:10 am

I'd rather remain solitary, to be honest - because wanting a relationship has brought me nothing but a broken heart and huge amounts of embarrassment and pain.

Feh. Solitude is far less trouble...


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