Majority of women don't want to have sex with me.

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Sex is not the most important thing in the world.

You're just like coffee, Jamesy. You cheer me up in the morning.

Most women don't want to have sex with me, either. It would have to be done, leatherjacket style because I'm built the way that John Banner (Schultz) was in life.

Almost no women ever are going to be as direct as to ask you to come home with them and F.

In sales - and this is sales work.. selling yourself as the guy they should be with - it's all about asking the right questions & listening to answers; especially closing questions.

At the end of the night after you've been chatting with a girl or had a kiss etc whatever, have you ever asked her if she'd like to come home with you? or go for coffee/dessert, or ask her for her number/contact info, or ask her if she'd like to go to dinner with you on Friday evening ? etc.

Directly asking 'Wanna go F?' isn't likely to get you the response you want. Girls are definitely more.. long game than guys/gay guys. You've gotta ask her the right question(s) to get a use and move on to the next step towards you two getting intimate. If she's super into getting naked that night, she might give off some signals that that's what she's down for.. but otherwise it may be a safer play to ask if she'd like to hang out, and then if things feel right maybe one of you makes a move, but if they just feel right enough to want to be around each other - ask her out on a date and see if she'll agree to meet you for dinner or whatever. If she doesn't brush you off and agrees to meet you for dinner on Friday evening (be specific in your ask vs. asking if she'd maybe consider going to dinner with you sometime.. ask her flat out of she'd like to have dinner with you on Friday evening.) then you've got a chance.. if she politely declines, it's a no - she's never going to F you.

People know when they first meet people if they'd ever F them. The in between is just a matter of the right questions and conversations to lead to the main event. But if you never initiate conversations with the right types of questions to get to your next yes, then the one after that and the next and the next, then your chances of ever Fing that person remain approx nil. That's what happens when you're socially clueless and why I'm spelling these things out for you step by step now.

And don't expect that your first attempt will yield a date and then sex. You'll probably fumble your words and make an idiot of yourself several times over, but, practice makes perfect and eventually you'll land yourself a date.

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If your really wanting sex James, it may help to flash money around & offer to pay for the women's drinks. That helps some guys get laid.

A majority of women will not want to have sex with me either. However, I did find one individual that not only wanted to have sex with me, but marry me, and have a family with me.

I have not been every woman's cup of tea, and I respect that unless there is mutual attraction, there cannot be a sexual relationship.

In general, I have found that having emotional intelligence, and genuinely caring about my partner helped them feel safe enough in the relationship to allow me into their bedroom. I have always taken the stance that I need an emotional connection with the person before I could consider sex with them.

To be honest my ex-wife was not exactly the picture of neuro-typical behavior. But I loved the impulsive ADHD side of her. Unfortunately, due to workplace related trauma that she faced, and her acting out that trauma, we are no longer married.

I actually met the individual I have had sex with on online venues such as Yahoo Dating (which no longer exist), and POF. None of our dates were in bars. They were in restaurants, coffee shops, a play, etc.