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06 Jul 2011, 5:13 pm

Do you ever feel like the Ugly Duckling? Lonely, isolated, with no consensual partner or friends? But in the End there's or there was hope? If so, please post some replies.



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06 Jul 2011, 5:16 pm

Yep, also guaynabo rules. :P



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06 Jul 2011, 5:16 pm

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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass



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06 Jul 2011, 5:18 pm

MXH wrote:
Yep, also guaynabo rules. :P
Guaynabo,San Juan and the whole Island. :D



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06 Jul 2011, 5:19 pm

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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass

ouch



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06 Jul 2011, 5:21 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass
8O Now,now don't be harsh. I don't want any trouble. I'm cool. 8)



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06 Jul 2011, 5:34 pm

ConfusedDude wrote:
Do you ever feel like the Ugly Duckling? Lonely, isolated, with no consensual partner or friends? But in the End there's or there was hope? If so, please post some replies.


I have a partner... wait, you said consenual? Damn. :wink:



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06 Jul 2011, 5:39 pm

look up the term "ugly duckling" and thats where my picture is-and I am too old and too fat and that I will never find a person or a person that wants me-its rough that now I know why I cant meet people and that I am not good looking-I guess I am destined to be alone so that there are more people to match up with others. :(


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06 Jul 2011, 5:40 pm

I love cats. Nonjudgemental.

Except on Mondays.



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06 Jul 2011, 5:41 pm

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I love cats.
At least you have a pet. I don't.



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06 Jul 2011, 5:43 pm

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look up the term "ugly duckling" and thats where my picture is-and I am too old and too fat and that I will never find a person or a person that wants me-its rough that now I know why I cant meet people and that I am not good looking-I guess I am destined to be alone so that there are more people to match up with others. :(
I'm sorry to hear that too, man. I'm almost just like you. :cry:



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06 Jul 2011, 5:48 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass


I second that reaction.

OP, if you were 35, I would take that as a good inspiration.

But the fact that you are only 15 and you got your first partner at this age only means that you really can't relate to the problem of the majority here (which is failing to find a partner even in mid 20 and 30s). You can't relate to it because your problem, whatever it was, is totally of a different nature than the common problem here, our problem is deeper and bigger than just an ugly duckling issue.



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06 Jul 2011, 5:50 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
OneStepBeyond wrote:
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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass


I second that reaction.

OP, if you were 35, I would take that as a good inspiration.

But the fact that you are only 15 and you got your first partner at this age only means that you really can't relate to the problem of the majority here (which is failing to find a partner even in mid 20 and 30s). You can't relate to it because your problem, whatever it was, is totally of a different nature than the common problem here, our problem is deeper and bigger than just an ugly duckling issue.
Gotcha. Didn't mean to cause you any trouble to both of you.



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06 Jul 2011, 7:51 pm

ConfusedDude wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
OneStepBeyond wrote:
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are you going to tell us how you met some girl in math class therefore we will all be ok, because boy i will whoop yo ass


I second that reaction.

OP, if you were 35, I would take that as a good inspiration.

But the fact that you are only 15 and you got your first partner at this age only means that you really can't relate to the problem of the majority here (which is failing to find a partner even in mid 20 and 30s). You can't relate to it because your problem, whatever it was, is totally of a different nature than the common problem here, our problem is deeper and bigger than just an ugly duckling issue.
Gotcha. Didn't mean to cause you any trouble to both of you.


gosh now i feel bad. love you really



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06 Jul 2011, 8:48 pm

ConfusedDude wrote:
Do you ever feel like the Ugly Duckling? Lonely, isolated, with no consensual partner or friends? But in the End there's or there was hope? If so, please post some replies.


Mate I'll give you credit for have wisdom at your age :wink:
If you know your Hans Christian Andersen, then your understand that the ugly duckling as a cygnet.
Remember this the story of the ugly duckling is about personal transformation and the only person in charge and control of that transformation is the person making the changes in there life, self-awareness plays a key role in all forms of interpersonal relationships.



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06 Jul 2011, 11:14 pm

Ugly duckling, pffft. I'm more of the big flamboyant swan that all the lady mallards like to look at but won't get along with because I'm a swan and I have the temperament of a swan which, incidentally, does not mix well with the temperament of a lady mallard.


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