simon_says wrote:
MR20 wrote:
I grew more depressed and bitter because I realized there's nothing I can do to have friends and/or make myself more attractive to women. It just increased the loneliness, despair, and misery that I've been feeling.
Maybe you respect other people's judgements too much. You should cultivate a healthy disrespect at times.
I hate how true this is. I think that, by showing that you are willing to talk bad about someone, is a form of respect. It shows 2 things. One, that you're not afraid of them. Two, you believe your relationship is strong enough to withstand criticism. Be ready and willing to call people out on their s**t. People may not always like you for it, but they will respect you.
17 Sep 2011, 3:57 pm
