19 Jun 2020, 6:25 am
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
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You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with. 
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Most aspies prefer not to have much to do with social interaction.
You are unusual this way.
Interesting.
I'm very interested in psychology as well, you know.. For me humans are facinating.
19 Jun 2020, 6:29 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
Quote:
You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with.
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Most aspies prefer not to have much to do with social interaction.
You are unusual this way.
Interesting.
I'm very interested in psychology as well, you know.. For me humans are facinating.
Yes, I did notice your interests in your profile.
Human psychology is my passion.
You may have noticed by the way I interrogated you, and others.
But I prefer to study "The Naked Ape" at a safe distance,
Such as, on a website.
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19 Jun 2020, 6:31 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
Quote:
You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with.
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Duh, whatever.
Enough of this social drama and headache, let's see your photo.
19 Jun 2020, 6:39 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
Quote:
You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with.
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Duh, whatever.
Enough of this social drama and headache, let's see your photo.
I'm interested too,
Though I have more finesse than you, my ugly friend.
I guess you have your uses.
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19 Jun 2020, 6:59 am
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
Quote:
You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with.
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Duh, whatever.
Enough of this social drama and headache, let's see your photo.
I'm interested too,
Though I have more finesse than you, my ugly friend.
I guess you have your uses.
I am just seeking for "friendship".
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19 Jun 2020, 7:04 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I mean your attitude toward the friend after knowing he's interested in you, do you remain as nice as before knowing as if nothing happened? Because you were complaining that friendship gets destroyed after this and I wonder why.
Quote:
You really have no idea with what people I've been dealing with.
All I know that they were your friends, so what's the usual quality of people you pick as your friends?
If you experienced that so many times, you konw what the outcome is and it's exhausting. That means sometimes, depends on the person, my attitude may change and sometimes not. So mostly these people are not ready for a friendsship or the other way around: I'm not ready for a friendship with someone that admires me. Cause they keep having hopes. And if I find out that it was all about sex, well guess what I do
But yeah like most of my best friends in my past had at the beginning a bit of a crush on me and after we clarified it, we worked as friends, because they could accept that I'm not ready for more and the connection was too valuable to just throw it away. But how we can see, they're all not part of my life anymore. You know, it's impossible to generalize all of this... it's so individualAnd who I pick as friends? I don't know what to answer to that question.
Most aspies prefer not to have much to do with social interaction.
You are unusual this way.
Interesting.
I'm very interested in psychology as well, you know.. For me humans are facinating.
Psychology is just applied neurology.
19 Jun 2020, 7:38 am
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19 Jun 2020, 7:44 am
SharonB wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
...let's see your photo.
OP could take it a different way. For me: Yuck, feels like a meat market.
Riiibs!
19 Jun 2020, 7:44 am
19 Jun 2020, 7:46 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
SharonB wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
...let's see your photo.
OP could take it a different way. For me: Yuck, feels like a meat market.
Riiibs!
You are an embarrassment.
I'm impressed.
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19 Jun 2020, 7:47 am
19 Jun 2020, 7:49 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
SharonB wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
...let's see your photo.
OP could take it a different way. For me: Yuck, feels like a meat market.
Yup,
I can understand that hence my never asking for one.
But people do volunteer.
There is even a photo show thread somewhere on this website.
LC is very outgoing.
She might not mind.
Whale_Tuune was shy but did use her selfie as her avatar.
It takes all kind. <shrug>
I mean you two seriously think I was serious and expecting a photo? lol But a single photo may explain why she gets all this attention.
Not expecting.
Hoping.
I too would like to see what all the fuss is about.
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19 Jun 2020, 10:03 am
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
SharonB wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
...let's see your photo.
OP could take it a different way. For me: Yuck, feels like a meat market.
Yup,
I can understand that hence my never asking for one.
But people do volunteer.
There is even a photo show thread somewhere on this website.
LC is very outgoing.
She might not mind.
Whale_Tuune was shy but did use her selfie as her avatar.
It takes all kind. <shrug>
I mean you two seriously think I was serious and expecting a photo? lol But a single photo may explain why she gets all this attention.
Not expecting.
Hoping.
I too would like to see what all the fuss is about.
Tsk tsk, curiosity killed the cat.
19 Jun 2020, 11:13 am
19 Jun 2020, 11:28 am
19 Jun 2020, 12:27 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
I'm very interested in psychology as well, you know.. For me humans are facinating.
Well they are for sure quite interesting test objects. I did tests their psychology the last years a little bit as well because I had sometimes a bit of trouble with them.
Some of them are great some are idiots. But there are still a lot of questions of course.
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