08 Mar 2011, 4:57 pm
08 Mar 2011, 4:58 pm
zen_mistress wrote:
Moog wrote:
lotusblossom wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The thread would be more interesting and more parallel to its counterpart if it was "What type of man do you want?"
but that would be boring as it would be five pages of women saying "I want the face of boo, he is my type of man!"
I want a man who is a face in a jar
Who is learning to swim and how to drive a car
I can think of no one else I'd rather do
Than the middle eastern chap they call the face of booooo
Is that meant to be a rap?
Rap... poem... thing.
Actually, it does scan quite well as a rap.
08 Mar 2011, 5:01 pm
Dantac wrote:
Awesome.
08 Mar 2011, 5:19 pm
Niall wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
Niall wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
If it's about sex, then I have to say always gentle is BORING!
Yeah, I get the idea.
Another way I'll never fit in. Cavemen rule.
If one girl's opinion counts for anything, I prefer gentle as I have really sensitive skin and I am small and petite and I break easily... so dont worry, there are girls out there who like all sorts of men.
Maybe, but you only have to read what's being said about safe words to see what I'm getting at.
I can be rough if it's wanted, but it goes against all my instincts. Then I get girls complaining I'm not "macho" or "alpha" enough.
These are the ones who've seen through the one about wanting a guy who's taller than they are, presumably so they can be physically dominated.
Not being the dominating type doesn't get you very far. It's all about who can wield the biggest stick, not what they can do with things besides the stick!
Sure, there are exceptions, but I'm betting you are in California or New Zealand or somewhere!
For me, I like a guy with a bit of upper body strength. But I dont really like actual roughness. There are degrees of being roughed up, maybe a little is good, but I dont like too much of it as I am a small person and it makes me uncomfortable.
08 Mar 2011, 5:25 pm
08 Mar 2011, 5:27 pm
wefunction wrote:
Grisha wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
Why would it be so important to someone else that i was ambitious? I've never gotten that. I can understand someone being ambitiious, it's foisting their values on someone else that i dont get. I think that it's status and money.
I think "ambitious" is code for "financially secure", some people are shy about saying it directly...
When I say "ambitious", I mean "ambitious". If I meant "financially secure", I'd say "financially secure". Maybe it's just me that does that.
oh don't be silly, women NEVER say what they mean.
08 Mar 2011, 5:31 pm
08 Mar 2011, 5:31 pm
08 Mar 2011, 5:32 pm
how do they get it themselves? 
i cba to be all deceptive. 
08 Mar 2011, 5:33 pm
emlion wrote:
wefunction wrote:
Grisha wrote:
jamieboy wrote:
Why would it be so important to someone else that i was ambitious? I've never gotten that. I can understand someone being ambitiious, it's foisting their values on someone else that i dont get. I think that it's status and money.
I think "ambitious" is code for "financially secure", some people are shy about saying it directly...
When I say "ambitious", I mean "ambitious". If I meant "financially secure", I'd say "financially secure". Maybe it's just me that does that.
oh don't be silly, women NEVER say what they mean.
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
lol Many don't. It's not because they're being intentionally misleading, as far as I can tell. They just have a different perspective of what some words mean and expect the man to 'get it'.
I'd like to hear more about this.
08 Mar 2011, 5:34 pm
08 Mar 2011, 5:34 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
They just have a different perspective of what some words mean and expect the man to 'get it'.
And here people, is the source of all angst.
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