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02 Apr 2011, 6:03 pm

trojan51 is somehow ...shedding some ugly reality here, It's called peer influence and it's usually devastating for those with commonly undesired characteristics.

Rare the people who would not give a s**t about what others might think about their date, or even about their potential date.

Fact is, most people do care, and get too embarrassed by what others would say.

I once heard a colleague girl telling her friend :"but he's too short! you can get a taller one!" (they were talking about another guy, not me). So this phenomena hurts the chances of short people too.


It is probably for that same reason why most taller girls never accept to dance with me in public. The only taller_than_me girl that accepted my dance request in my life (so far) was a communist girl with a hippie dressing style , that's probably because she's of the type of people who don't give a s**t about what others might think whether of her "weird" taste in clothing or even her taste...in guys.

and it's for that same reason , why many secular people fear to date someone of another sect/civilization/race fearing of what the family/friends might think, say or even taunt.



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02 Apr 2011, 6:04 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
"What's a trouser snake?"


"That particular species has a wide variation, from the micropenis to Mandigo-sized. Most people like looking at the Mandingo-sized for some reason." ;)



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02 Apr 2011, 6:08 pm

lol Okay, I don't like you anymore. You made me laugh so hard my head started hurting again.


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02 Apr 2011, 6:11 pm

Thanks for the compliment.

Hope your head gets better soon, OK? :)



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02 Apr 2011, 6:16 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
trojan51 is somehow ...shedding some ugly reality here, It's called peer influence and it's usually devastating with those with commonly undesired characteristics.

Rare the people who would not give a sh** about what others might think about their date, or even about their potential date.

Fact is, most people do care, and get too embarrassed by what others would say.

I once heard a colleague girl telling her friend :"but he's too short! you can get a taller one!" (they were talking about another guy, not me). So this phenomena hurts the chances of short people too.


It is probably for that same reason why most taller girls never accept to dance with me in public. The only taller_than_me girl that accepted my dance request ever in my life so far was a communist girl with hippie dressing style , that's probably because she's of the type of people don't give a sh** what others might think ....whether about her "weird" taste in clothing or even ...in guys.

and it's for that same reason , why many secular people fear to date someone of another sect/civilization/race fearing of what the family/friends might think, say or even taunt.


YESSSSSS, you interpreted my message 100%, it is peer influence. If women want to be fat and are proud of it then thats ok with me, but they can't go expecting to get men when they are fat.



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02 Apr 2011, 6:16 pm

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Women need to know that with us, our friends taunt and make fun of us if we talk to or are seen dating a fat woman. When fat girls have talked to me, my friends say "uh come on man, you can do better than that!"
Imagine what we have to go through, so even men who like fatter girls are afraid to date them in fear of taunts from other men.

Excuse me for not feeling terribly sorry for people who CHOOSE to surround themselves with bigoted idiots, and who submit their lives to their approval.
Grow a spine.

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If women want to be fat and are proud of it then thats ok with me, but they can't go expecting to get men when they are fat.


Why, is that, exactly? Talking for everyone else with a penis yet again? In all the time this thread has been going on, there have been several men who flat-out disagree with your declarations about the universal un-attractiveness of fat women, and you've yet to acknowledge them. Are you truly interested only in preaching?

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Our country is having a massive obesity epidemic and people are proud of it?

I did educate myself online and read about what it is like to be a fat woman, and its brutal, i feel very sorry for them.


Yes, how dare people promote self-love and respect for all human beings regardless of what size they are.
I guess you don't "feel sorry for" us enough to stop spewing stereotypes and declarations about our failures to be the size you think we "should", huh?


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02 Apr 2011, 6:18 pm

trojan51 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
trojan51 is somehow ...shedding some ugly reality here, It's called peer influence and it's usually devastating with those with commonly undesired characteristics.

Rare the people who would not give a sh** about what others might think about their date, or even about their potential date.

Fact is, most people do care, and get too embarrassed by what others would say.

I once heard a colleague girl telling her friend :"but he's too short! you can get a taller one!" (they were talking about another guy, not me). So this phenomena hurts the chances of short people too.


It is probably for that same reason why most taller girls never accept to dance with me in public. The only taller_than_me girl that accepted my dance request ever in my life so far was a communist girl with hippie dressing style , that's probably because she's of the type of people don't give a sh** what others might think ....whether about her "weird" taste in clothing or even ...in guys.

and it's for that same reason , why many secular people fear to date someone of another sect/civilization/race fearing of what the family/friends might think, say or even taunt.


YESSSSSS, you interpreted my message 100%, it is peer influence. If women want to be fat and are proud of it then thats ok with me, but they can't go expecting to get men when they are fat.


That's just nonsense. There are plenty of guys out there that happily chase bigger girls.


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02 Apr 2011, 6:19 pm

There are some quite big "fat forums" (hint hint) dedicated to this very subject.



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02 Apr 2011, 6:23 pm

trojan51 wrote:
That is because everyone gains weight the older they get!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! If a girl is fat in her early 20s before having kids, imagine how much she will weigh later in life.

I know that any woman who is fat would lose weight if it was easy to do or if she could make a wish come true even though we can't always get what we want. Why are people proud of being obese?


God you really are an idiot aren't you. Do you want a shovel? Looks like you've worn that one out.



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02 Apr 2011, 6:25 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
trojan51 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
trojan51 is somehow ...shedding some ugly reality here, It's called peer influence and it's usually devastating with those with commonly undesired characteristics.

Rare the people who would not give a sh** about what others might think about their date, or even about their potential date.

Fact is, most people do care, and get too embarrassed by what others would say.

I once heard a colleague girl telling her friend :"but he's too short! you can get a taller one!" (they were talking about another guy, not me). So this phenomena hurts the chances of short people too.


It is probably for that same reason why most taller girls never accept to dance with me in public. The only taller_than_me girl that accepted my dance request ever in my life so far was a communist girl with hippie dressing style , that's probably because she's of the type of people don't give a sh** what others might think ....whether about her "weird" taste in clothing or even ...in guys.

and it's for that same reason , why many secular people fear to date someone of another sect/civilization/race fearing of what the family/friends might think, say or even taunt.


YESSSSSS, you interpreted my message 100%, it is peer influence. If women want to be fat and are proud of it then thats ok with me, but they can't go expecting to get men when they are fat.


That's just nonsense. There are plenty of guys out there that happily chase bigger girls.


Maybe because they fell in love with the rest of her and looked past physical appearance and liked her for who she was on the inside



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02 Apr 2011, 6:27 pm

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Maybe because they fell in love with the rest of her and looked past physical appearance and liked her for who she was on the inside


Some of them "looked past" her appearance.

And some men are ACTIVELY ATTRACTED to and even PREFER overweight women.

Why is this so hard for you to admit?


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02 Apr 2011, 6:29 pm

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Excuse me for not feeling terribly sorry for people who CHOOSE to surround themselves with bigoted idiots, and who submit their lives to their approval.
Grow a spine.


People don't always really choose to surround themselves with people that might have some bigoted backward views. Some people need the approval of their family , siblings , relatives and even friends when it comes to some bf/gf.

Some of the disapprovals can be explicit ("ie. I don't want you to date him my daughter because..." or even indirect ("ie. What do you really find in him?")


Didn't you tell me earlier that your parents wouldn't approve your marriage to a non-white guy? and that you would never do it without your parent's approval?

Yes, weightism/heightism/lookism are as bad and bigoted as racism.



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02 Apr 2011, 6:31 pm

trojan51 wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

That's just nonsense. There are plenty of guys out there that happily chase bigger girls.


Maybe because they fell in love with the rest of her and looked past physical appearance and liked her for who she was on the inside


Ever heard of a chubby chaser?

And like a previous poster said, there are sites that cater to people with a fat fetish. Ever heard of an eater/feeder relationship before?

Anyway, I'm done here. This is dangerously close to adult forum content and I don't wish to get it moved with my big mouth. :-X


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02 Apr 2011, 6:33 pm

I have never met a man who is attracted to fat girls in my entire life, maybe they wont admit it i dont know



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02 Apr 2011, 6:35 pm

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I have never met a man who is attracted to fat girls in my entire life, maybe they wont admit it i dont know


Well you can tell us maybe when you become one.



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I have never met a man who is attracted to fat girls in my entire life, maybe they wont admit it i dont know


Then you've also never heard of men that are attracted to 80+ year old women then, I suppose? Just because you haven't heard of them doesn't mean they don't exist.