How Many Girlfriends/Boyfriends have You Had?

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1, back in 2017, but it wasn't that serious, kinda casual, I feel I kinda settled for her

Two, but I don’t really count the first one anymore because it was only for about a month and we never talked outside of the game we met each other on, where he said he was single when he wasn’t. They were both online and long distance.

Three.

Don't really count the first one. Was very short-lived.

Second one was my first "real" relationship with anybody.

Third one I thought had potential, even though it was online and long distance, but it lasted a good 5 years until recently.

Two boyfriends, but that was long ago, when I was in my 20s. That doesn't count.

Not enough, yet somehow also too many.

Six girlfriend's. One FWB arrangement and a few one night stands. Currently very single! Most my relationships ended badly but I'm getting better.

11 if you count every single one. I also just realized I met 6 of those on World of Warcraft. And then 3 from other games. I feel like I should be ashamed of this statistic, heh.

All but 1 were long distance for the entire duration.

The one that wasn't long distance lasted about 5 or 6 months and was strictly at school when I was in the 10th grade.

One of the long distance relationships lasted about 5 years split into 3 parts over the past 9 years. He's still a close friend.

Of the others, I think 2 others lasted around a year. One of those being the most serious (And most recent) of my relationships.

The distance killed most of those relationships. One of them was even in Brazil... I'm in Oregon. Funny enough, that relationship lasted about a year regardless.

Right now I don't have anyone but I am honestly not really looking, either. Long-distance was the one real way I could meet people thanks to my social... ineptness. But long-distance no longer sounds appealing. Neither does trying to meet people. But I have plenty of hobbies.

All 3 of my relationships were long distance too, none were in another country thou. Both my exes lived in Texas & I lived in Louisiana & me & my current live in Vermont. The distance was definitely a problem & a factor as to why my 1st two relationships fell apart. I wouldn't of been able to relocate for a couple years with my 1st girlfriend cuz of her age(she was 15) & I struggle with employment cuz of various mental & physical disabilities. I guess our relationship lasted about half a year but we were online friends a while before she told me she liked me. We met on a forum. I met my 2nd 8 years later on this forum. She was 19 & in college & dependent on her parents for financial assistance. Her parents were hard-core conservatives & didn't want us being alone together so I wasn't allowed to go to her apartment which meant I had to go to her parents house. They would of cut her financial assistance off if we defied them & my disability benefits aren't enough for me to afford an apartment & other expenses without other assistance. That relationship also lasted about half a year. I also met my current on this forum not too long after the 2nd relationship ended. She read a lot of my posts & sent me a PM. She was much more of a lurker than a poster. We moved in together after about 8 months & I had taken a couple trips up here for a couple weeks at a time & she had taken one trip down. Her lease was running out & we got a new place. She's also disabled but has housing assistance in addition to other things. I was very willing to relocate cuz I felt trapped living with my parents.
When I was single I struggled majorly to get a girlfriend & never got a single date. I tried various ways to meet women offline & online. I think being disabled was a big factor as to why I couldn't get someone along with my ret*d social skills. I had no luck even when I was working but I was working minimum wage type jobs.

Yeah, it's rough going long-distance. By the time it was plausible for me to actually go out and visit people, it was a bit too late for any of my relationships. And even just last year I was more or less willing to move for someone. But now I've decided I want to stay where I am. Long distance just doesnt make sense anymore. It just sucks, since I can't make friends. Or won't, depends on your definition I guess.

Zero. And I detest that this is the case.

Really? I think George Strait sang a song about you!

Zero official relationships though i have liked people before and there were people who liked me.

1 committed and loving relationship

1 almost relationship that ended horribly

I heard that song a bunch of times throughout my life but actually never new who did it. I do like country music including that song but there's other types of music I tend to like & listen to more.

I have had one boyfriend and I currently have a girlfriend.

Zero.

I almost kissed someone once, I'm kind of glad I didn't though. Not sure why I even liked her. It was a bad friendship. At one point I asked her out, and she rejected me but then later on she asked me out. But then we broke up three days later. However, she tried to kiss me afterwards even though she wanted help finding out if a boy she liked had feelings for her. I just...ugh. What was I thinking?

Also, I had a fake relationship during secondary school mainly out of peer pressure. I didn't like the guy that way, and he didn't like me that way either. Queue years of awkwardness.

However, despite all this I don't really count these experiences. Some people argue that I should, but I prefer not to. Nothing happened. I still haven't had my first kiss yet. Unless you count on the cheek, which I don't.