Will any female here actually admit to liking jerks?

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The thing is men have to treat women differently than men because women are more sensitive and easier to upset.

Maybe you just "think" you are nice. I've come across men who just thought they were nice and would whine if they didn't get what they wanted from me, would call and invade my personal space when it was unwelcomed, would threaten to hurt themselves if I didn't give in.

Real nice guys don't pat themselves on the back and claim themselves as nice then go on an autistic messageboard and call someone a ret*d.

Maybe you need to examine what is going on internally and do something about it.

Some people that claim to be nice are just full of it. Then there are really nice people.

All of these posts blaming women for not getting what you want shows you aren't a nice person and frankly not alot of women will want you if you have the attitude of entitlement.

You aren't entitled to a super model. You aren't entitled to sex for being nice or playing nice.

Also, when it comes to looks, males are way more picky than women are and won't refrain from telling a woman she's ugly or average in the looks department or criticize her frame.

Guys should quit doing the following.

-Watching porn to learn how to treat women.

-Asking clueless male friends.

-Bashing women for not putting out.

-Acting as though they are entitled to a super model but the women should see past their own outer flaws and accept everything about them.

-Acting as if it's all the woman's fault for not being interested.

-Blaming women for their lack of interest even though it takes two to be interested.

-Failure to understand that these other guys you are watching get what you want probably try more times than you do. If you sulk over being rejected for prolonged periods of time over one female, you're missing out on other chances.





Most women I know don't sit there and jump out there seat and declare "Hey I know, how about I go find a jerk today!"

When guys say stuff like all women want jerks, it really reveals they aren't all that nice themselves and/or wallowing in self pity. That isn't attractive and if you keep just blaming women and not willing to accept anything else, good luck.


-The blunt girl that always gets in trouble for it.

After reading through this ENTIRE thread, I have to say that I am thoroughly disgusted with some of the viewpoints that have been professed in this thread, so much so that I am almost ashamed to be male and have decided to get a sex change operation and become a woman . It seems some of the jerks that the title of this thread mentions came out to defend themselves.

First, it seems that there is confusion over the meaning of "feminism." Feminism has many different divisions describing how women ought to be treated. For example, I am a "liberal feminist." This means that I believe that women and men are entitled to equal opportunities and held to equal or comparable standards in all aspects. In simpler terms, men and women are equal.

Second, women are entitled. Women are entitled to be treated equally, to express their own ideas and beliefs, to disagree with those with conflicting ideas, and to generally be their own person with their own voice. Men are also entitled to these rights. All people, regardless of gender, deserve to be treated equally.

To take such negative experiences and become empowered by them in such a manner as you describe is utterly inspiring. You are an example of human fortitude and endurance, and a testament to the strength of human will. Other people in your shoes might have been crushed by the long, hard road you have walked, but you overcame it. Such a gift is rare. You, Merle, are a shining example of the human spirit. I am in awe.

My respect for you has gone from "high" to "astronomical."

So, in other words, the Che Guevara of women's rights?

sorry you are so oppressed by women, ToS. It must be frustrating to want something they have that you feel they are 'witholding' from you. I must chuckle to think you think that they have 'finally achieved their goals' though. Just because things are 'different' doesn't mean they are 'done.'
Merle