Your ideal partner...?

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physical

18-22
pretty face
blonde-brunette not fussed
A bonus if you look like Mila Kunis


personality

funny
understanding
trustworthy
bubbly

You rang?

Hahaha! *Cough*

I am.

/me falls off chair laughing.

hey, SINsister, you gorgeous creature - fancy divvying up on the chest front, then? what d'you fancy swapping a bit of front for, then, eh?

Hmmm...how 'bout you find me my ideal guy, and then we'll talk? I think that's a fair swap...

erm.... how long are you prepared to wait...? i have to admit that finding one for ME has been difficult (and non-productive) enough, hon. not sure my track record is great in that department

couldn't you make do with some of my biceps instead?

my ideal boyfriend would be someone like thom yorke from radiohead: cute, intelligent and creative.

Ok good, I haven't already posted on this thread.

I think there are at least a few key personality traits I'd look for in a woman that would make her my dream girl. For one, honesty and sincerity - I want her to be real, legit, and not be skiddish about things that are interesting just because the societal norms never dictated that they were cool or in. I'd like her to definitely be a think-for-herself, self-assured, and self-sufficient type of girl who could manage on her own more than well enough and has her head on straight. I'd like her to be one of those people where you can see that she's real rational, plans ahead, does analyse things before she dives in, has a lot of common sense, and has that successful air about her. I'd also like her to be a little bit alternative inwardly too herself; wholesome enough and normal enough in her social self to do well in life but having that kind of corner to her emotionality that she has to hold back from society because it's something way above the crowd that she knows they just won't get and never will. A lot of the girls I've met who come closed to this have been either the kinda the real bucked-out alternative chicks (ones that had that kind of Milah Jovovich sexuality to em but also had a real interesting and intelligent outlook on things - a lot of em have liked me and catching the maternal flirt from em doesn't bug me, trick is getting em to be ablt to read my reactions) and I've also met a lot of girls who seemed like the hardened business types but when I got to know em they were kinda like Helen Hunt's character from What Women Want - they were really good people underneath it all and far more legit than many women I've met. Even if a girls gorgeous, I hate smoke and mirrors and although I'd at least want to find her attractive it usually takes getting to know a girl pretty well before looks do much of anything for me anymore.

As for her neurological orientation, I wouldn't make a call on what it has to be but I'd say she'll far more than likely just be a rare type of NT. DOn't get me wrong, I'd love to date an AS woman, but aspie social norms being what they are (and me also wanting her to be a conservative or at least have a similar worldview to mine), expecting her to also be aspie would be way too tall an order. IRL with NT's maybe one out of every 300 or 400 may fit that (sad thing is they're the type that magically just never happen to be in the same classes or work anywhere that I work either - I just catch em in passing with no hope of an excuse to talk to em much of the time), aspies I'm thinking probably one in 3 or 4 million and that's diagnosed and undiagnosed. If that happens - awesome, otherwise though I might wanna buy some Superlotto tickets and try my luck at that since I'd have a better chance there.

Biggest reason why I'd want a girl like this is I'm one of those people where 1). I hate drama 2). I want someone who I can give the benefit of the doubt to and vice a versa 3). I'd rather that we mutually strengthen eachother's identities rather than desolving into eachother - I'd want her to be as independent herself 4). second part of the last thing is that I'd need a girl who can appreciate a slightly more cognitive form of love than need all kinds of shmoozing and mush to feel appreciated or loved - someone who feels as much like a misfit herself over that and really desires someone who can be at ease with that. I want her to date me because I'm who'd make her happiest, being that's just how the deal works out for her. These days, with as little work as most people want to put in and as little friction they're willing to put up with, you almost have to find a head-on match because being able to work on things or talk things out may not be an option they'll go with you on. I'd just want someone who feels deeply enough about me to where she'd feel the relationship was worth the effort and to where we knew we could trust eachother to bring stuff to the table that needed to be addressed rather than just cheating or leaving a dear john or dear jane after acting like nothing was wrong for months.

I know I haven't dated much in my life but really, I wanna go steady and I don't really wanna try to much untill I find someone who I can just connect with on the level. I at leas know how to spot it IRL now, or I'm getting a lot better at it, all that's left is just crossing my fingers and hoping luck and chance bring that kind of meeting arround somehow in my ventures.

18-24 years
Decent height and weight (not to picky)
Long hair
Atheist, or VERY tollerent of atheists
Makes me laugh
Someone to look up too
Likes me for who I am

Alright, here's my perfect girl in a nutshell. Please note that none of these traits are absolute musts, and that of course there is no such thing as a "perfect" girl, but here goes.

- I want a girl who is very affectionate, both physically and verbally. Public displays of affection should not be an issue, and there shouldn't be any such thing as being too sappy. And they shouldn't be afraid of a little sexual exploration either.

- My perfect girl would be intelligent, but not a snob. Someone I'd be able to have deep and serious discussions with, but also be able to goof around with. Someone who is smart enough, but doesn't make me feel dumb.

- I'd love someone who is very friendly, kind, considerate, thoughtful, sensitive to others' feelings, understanding, and most importantly, open-minded.

- I wouldn't want someone grounded in morals. I guess I'd prefer someone who wasn't religious.

- Someone who can make me laugh, of course - and I'd prefer someone a bit on the goofy side. Sarcasm, cynicism and whatnot can be fun in small doses, but I don't want someone who overdoes it with those things. Basically, someone lighthearted.

- I would like someone who had at least a few interests in common with me - bonus points if it's one or more of my more eccentric interests. Oh and some of the same turn-ons too

- Looks are of minimal importance to me, but since this is my ideal girl we're talking about: How about a redhead with blue eyes, a beautiful smile, smooth skin, about 5'3" to 5'5", and slightly on the chubby side. I wouldn't mind a blonde or an Asian/Oriental girl either.

- Oh and I almost forgot age. Really, anywhere from 18-24 would be fine, I'd say. (I'm 20 going on 21).

Bump

Physical:

Curvy/voluptuous
Not too short, not too tall

Non-physical:
Intelligent, preferably college-educated
Funny
Progressive
Loyal
Honest
Adventurous