Will any female here actually admit to liking jerks?

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Yes the door does swing both ways. If you want a successful relationship you need understand the others person perspective and them yours. Every one has thier strengths and weaknesses, both male and females. It is not about accusing. It is about communicating.

Thanks goodness things have changed since the 1930's. I hope women can continue to have their rights that are fair! and to be respected.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 01 Feb 2009, 2:54 am, edited 1 time in total.

so now WHAT all makes sense? I am not some programmed robot, stuck in what ever stereotype you figure to pigeonhole me into. I am a woman shaped by the events in my life that causes me to work for people getting less kicked around than they have been before.

I don't carry some card with a summation of what my beliefs are, and I don't ascribe to this lable or that lable and rather resent you trying infer I am something that I am not. I gave you the benefit of the doubt by sharing with you where I am coming from, but you seem to have no understanding of what I have already told you about my life or what I have done to change things for the better. Why you think I am here to fit into your definitions of what you think I am or am not, I have no idea. What is more, you seem to think I should care what you think about me.

What you think of me is none of my business, ToS. I am not here to be defined by what you think I am. Go screw with someone else's trip.

Merle

I didn't read any of the pos ts but here is my opinion. I never preferred jerks, but they have preferred me. "Nice guys" especially aspie males, are so high maintenance. They have such fantastic high standards. I couldn't compete with their love afar attitude. I think aspie females are much more honest, upfront, and blunt. Although I have always admired the socially ret*d brilliant nerd, they are like a fantasy. Sometimes I wonder if it was set up that way. Don't laugh...I really think that there may be some sort of alien set up which requires us females to have a spiritual connection with AS males and yet we can never connect on this material realm.

So...My last minute new theory is that we must destroy our ego to attain the love we have desired since kindergarten.

Two things: when a woman hits a man and a cop sees it, it's assault, and where I'm from, her dumn ass will be arrested.

And two-have you seen most of the guys in straight porn? The guys aren't chosen for their looks usually--just ability to perform and have certain hefty attributes. Ugh. Gimme gay porn so I can at least ogle good looking guys--and let's face it, besides the plastic quality of the women, it's so fake...gads. Some of those women sound so damn stupid, and not sexy at all...

So much dishonesty on the parts of both genders...

When I was involved in my first relationship (which lasted from 9 to 11 years of age) we wrestled and kissed and beat the hell out of one another and then watched cartoons and laughed afterwards. My second relationship (which lasted from 12 to 20 years of age) we beat the hell out each other and screwed. Only by then I learned how to graze the balls. It sent him down for minutes. Point is, guys are a different animal...aspie or NT gay or straight...

Where are you from?

I've been assaulted by a guy before. Ive had many dealing with the cops. They don't treat you seriously and they act like sexest pigs! You can guarantee as soon as i have done something wrong Ive got the hand cuffs on.

The prisoner officers or who ever they are that look after you when your locked up are nice. That's if you call them Boss! and don't nag what you want too much or make too many request or you get nothing. You just have to act sweet.

So you are not going to become a women then?

Nah, I won't be getting that sex change. Look, I know we've had our moments, but in the end I just don't feel that way about you so much as to go through with it. I know this probably shatters your dreams, but I have to do what's best for me.

I wish you all the best then.

You don't want to become a woman. They get it hard. Alot tougher then men!

Hard, lol

LOL!

LOL all you want. Havnt you ever heard the saying "She's done it hard" or "She's doing it hard" or "They giving her a hard time."

We knew what you meant, BellaDonna, it was just a dirty pun.