The dreams make it hurt more

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Northeastern292
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06 Oct 2009, 7:50 pm

j5689 wrote:

For the past three or four nights, I've dreamt about the girl I like.

I mean, I saw her at the beginning of this week and I said hi and she said hi and she was staring at me just like the time when she pushed her ex out of the way to hug me.

And then I wanted to say hi to her yesterday and she saw me coming down the hall and then she turned her back to talk to this other kid, and right when I said hi she started talking and I don't know if she didn't hear me over herself or if she was ignoring me but I felt ignored. It might be because she's mad at me because I haven't gone up to the office to say hi to her in a while because I keep running out of things to talk about and then awkward silence kind of happens. I don't even know that I mean that much to her, how could I know other than the look she gave me.

I want her so bad but I don't have any idea what to do. It almost made me cry yesterday after she ignored me and the day already wasn't going well.

Man, I know just how you feel! I worry that a girl I have a thing for gets snatched up by somebody else. It's even harder when you barely know the person.

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07 Oct 2009, 12:57 pm

[quote="CerebralDreamer]Is it just me, or are the simplest things the most difficult?[/quote]

No, not just you. There are so many reasons to put aside the simpler things and go work on harder / more complex tasks (e.g. better feelings of reward and accomplishments, immediate gains).

Epic journeys are completed with simple steps.

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17 Nov 2009, 11:54 pm

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

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I've asked her out like several times before and she said no over the past two years and I'm still not over her

She's just not that interested in you. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Find that someone.

I'm not sure I know what under someone means.

Sex

How on earth would I do that?

A couple of ways:

1) Sign up for one of those online dating sex specifically for sex
2) Go to a bar or anywhere with lots of women and ask for their numbers then try to get them alone and have sex
3) Go for one of those older women who's starving for sex with a younger guy.
4) Get a hooker
5) Even if none of these work out, at least the effort you put into having sex with another girl will help dissipate your unhealthy desires for the first girl..

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19 Nov 2009, 6:43 pm

blackomen wrote:

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

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I've asked her out like several times before and she said no over the past two years and I'm still not over her

She's just not that interested in you. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Find that someone.

I'm not sure I know what under someone means.

Sex

How on earth would I do that?

1) Do those even work?
2) lol, that's almost like getting it legitimately but if there's alcohol involved, then it's not
3) I don't know about that
4) Lately I've considered prostitution. But then I thought about how the D.C. area now has the highest HIV rate in the country and simultaneously higher than West Africa: 60% of those tested for HIV are positive for it and at least 3% of the D.C. population are living with HIV. Nice to know I can't even get it the illegitimate way unless I want to travel a few hours away to another area or die within a few months/years
5) Yeah, I guess the first time isn't supposed to be special for me since it's so hard to get sex in any way at all. Might as well go for it the first chance I get with anybody.

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19 Nov 2009, 6:49 pm

j5689 wrote:

snippety snip snip

If you really want to get laid then:

1. Find a cougar who'd go for you. (Older woman horny for sex with younger guy.)

2. Use a condom, and if at all possible, make sure she's tested. Properly used condoms are a pretty safe bet against HIV, but again, condom failures do happen, and most of the time that's due to improper use.

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19 Nov 2009, 7:41 pm

CerebralDreamer wrote:

j5689 wrote:

snippety snip snip

It's not too big of a deal, but I've heard from NTs that it helps your confidence a lot once you've finally done it. Probably doesn't have the same effect if it's a prostitute though. Maybe even the opposite effect.

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31 Dec 2009, 1:21 am

j5689 wrote:

CerebralDreamer wrote:

j5689 wrote:

snippety snip snip

Correction: Hiring a pro has a good effect on your confidence when you lose your virginity to one. It puts sex into perspective for you.

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31 Dec 2009, 1:32 am

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

j5689 wrote:

Merle wrote:

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I've asked her out like several times before and she said no over the past two years and I'm still not over her

She's just not that interested in you. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Find that someone.

I'm not sure I know what under someone means.

Sex

How on earth would I do that?

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