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Adam82
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01 Jul 2010, 9:21 am

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I know that I’m young and all, but frankly, I’m 17 years old and I do not know anyone my age that has never been with anyone. I have absolutely zero friends. I have never had any sort of friends and not a single person has ever expressed any sort of interest in me, and it doesn’t look like that’s going to change any time soon. I try to be nice to people, but it seems that I'm just not interesting enough or attractive enough or likable enough or whatever it is that makes people want to spend time around me. Everyone says to like, try to find groups of people who are interested in the same things I'm interested in, but even then, no one wants to hang out with me, even if I make friendly overtures. It seems like I'm just hopeless. Is it possible for a person to, like, go their entire lives without finding anyone? Without ever making friends or getting with someone? Because it looks like that's just about where I'm headed.


Well... I'm a decade older than you, and I've never had anyone at all. No GF, no kisses, no nothing. I don't know anyone my age who is that way. Probably not what you wanted to hear. :cry:



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01 Jul 2010, 12:06 pm

Is there any sort of Youth volunteering program near you that you could get involved with?
People can be easier to interact with if you have a similar purpose, and volunteering attracts a mix of people. It's also considered a positive thing for college/job applications, so that is a benefit too.



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01 Jul 2010, 9:04 pm

I can tell by your post that you are trying too hard. You have to be cool, like fonzi (eventhough fonzi isn't really that cool and kind of a douche) but you know what I mean. Gel your hair up, pull out your collars and when you walk,bend your knees,point both of your feet outwards, look at everyone in the room like you own them. Just walk up to a random table of people, slam your fist down and ask them, "So, who wants to be my friend first"? You need confidence. Chicks dig confidence too. Just walk up to a group of hot chicks, smell their neck, pull back, look them in the eyes and ask them, "Your place or the bathroom"? Trust me, it will work.