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02 Aug 2010, 1:03 pm

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Telling a girl/woman you are madly in love with her or implying such a thing, without having taken the time to get to know her is creepy.

I had a 15 year old tell me that he wanted to marry me after only IMing me for a day. I freaked out and haven't messaged him since. :/

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02 Aug 2010, 1:04 pm

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Uh uh. I'm a special door with a customized lock that only those with the correct password can access and then they have to go through a DNA scan. It's an arduous process.

Metal, I am sure. Nice.

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But someone who turns potential love interests away because of a previous bad experience isn't going to find someone, are they? Anyone who's been in a relationship has had bad experiences, but until you move on from them you'll continue to feel hurt by them. When you do start seeing other people, however, the pain from your previous relationship decreases.

I am sure Erisad will find someone who is awesome after some time. She is just waiting to regain trust.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:05 pm

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But the same risk exists whether the relationship is long-distance or not. Dickheads cheat, simple. If you want love you have to wade through the garbage to find the gold.

Emotions aren't logical, Asp-Z. She knows this; her brain tells her this. Her heart, however, tells her differently.

Not when you're seeing someone because they say so. If I'm not attracted to someone, I'm not going to enjoy myself while dating them. Sorry. I need to meet someone before being attracted to them. Sure, I appreciate good spelling and sentence structure but those things do not a good partner make. >.>

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02 Aug 2010, 1:07 pm

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Erisad wrote:

Uh uh. I'm a special door with a customized lock that only those with the correct password can access and then they have to go through a DNA scan. It's an arduous process.

Metal, I am sure. Nice.

Asp-Z wrote:

I am sure Erisad will find someone who is awesome after some time. She is just waiting to regain trust.

Made from adamantium. It's strong and pretty! ^_^

Yeah, the wounds just reopened this past weekend when my ex messaged me again for a booty call. :/

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02 Aug 2010, 1:07 pm

Erisad wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

Ferdinand wrote:

Asp-Z wrote:

But the same risk exists whether the relationship is long-distance or not. Dickheads cheat, simple. If you want love you have to wade through the garbage to find the gold.

Emotions aren't logical, Asp-Z. She knows this; her brain tells her this. Her heart, however, tells her differently.

For troubles facing ye, Skype be the key...

Also, if you do start talking to someone online and decide you like each other, you can always make a trip and meet them.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:08 pm

Erisad wrote:

I look like Dwayne Johnson.

Not really.

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For troubles facing ye, Skype be the key...

Also, if you do start talking to someone online and decide you like each other, you can always make a trip and meet them.

She wants a steady relationship to be between her and a man who live close to each other.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:10 pm

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Erisad wrote:

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Ferdinand wrote:

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But the same risk exists whether the relationship is long-distance or not. Dickheads cheat, simple. If you want love you have to wade through the garbage to find the gold.

Emotions aren't logical, Asp-Z. She knows this; her brain tells her this. Her heart, however, tells her differently.

For troubles facing ye, Skype be the key...

Also, if you do start talking to someone online and decide you like each other, you can always make a trip and meet them.

I don't have Skype or a webcam. Maybe when I get a new lappy. D:

But then what? If I have to get on a plane everytime I want to see the person, it's financially irresponsible. I'm a college student which means I'm poor. I have no license or car so I couldn't drive to see them either. It's not all about money with me but I do need to be able to support myself in order to survive. If a mate gets in the way of that, he's less attractive. Geeze, I sound like a b***h. D:

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02 Aug 2010, 1:10 pm

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Erisad wrote:

I look like Dwayne Johnson.

Not really.

I don't know who that is. XD

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02 Aug 2010, 1:11 pm

We all have our types, Erisad. Don't feel bad about yours.

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I don't know who that is. XD

The Rock.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:14 pm

Know how you feel. One of the reasons why i dropped OKCupid, i found these great girls far away on the other side of the planet but realised that it ain't gonna happen.

Also, the only ones that wrote to me were desperate women with 6 kids that lived in the Philipines and a Muslim woman from northern Africa who said that Allah had guided her to me - too bad illiteracy seems to be a global problem, because i specifically wrote that i hated kids and was an staunch atheist, i didn't even have a picture up at the time. People ARE weird!

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02 Aug 2010, 1:17 pm

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Telling a girl/woman you are madly in love with her or implying such a thing, without having taken the time to get to know her is creepy.

I just finished reading this entire thread and I find the whole thing a little creepy.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:18 pm

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I remember a lady from a refugee camp in Africa finding me on WP and then sending me an e-mail asking me to give her my bank account number. Really? I'm pretty certain scamming Aspies is a one-way ticket to eternal damnation. :/

Yeah, if someone's illiterate, I'm not sure if I could stomach that. They don't need impeccable grammar and spelling 24/7 but at least put the effort in when trying to impress me. I'm a writing major, I'm finicky about that sort of thing. He doesn't need to be a professor or anything but just show a basic grasp of the language please. D:

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02 Aug 2010, 1:20 pm

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Telling a girl/woman you are madly in love with her or implying such a thing, without having taken the time to get to know her is creepy.

I just finished reading this entire thread and I find the whole thing a little creepy.

The whole thing? Is that including myself? I dun wanna be a creeper. D:

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02 Aug 2010, 1:26 pm

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The whole thing? Is that including myself? I dun wanna be a creeper. D:

No, just the marriage proposal. That's creepy.

You need to get your self on AIM more though.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:27 pm

Erisad wrote:

dyingofpoetry wrote:

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Telling a girl/woman you are madly in love with her or implying such a thing, without having taken the time to get to know her is creepy.

I just finished reading this entire thread and I find the whole thing a little creepy.

The whole thing? Is that including myself? I dun wanna be a creeper. D:

Not necessarily.... it's all kind of unique take on the love and dating topic, but not in a cool, kinky sense; more in a "after reading this dyingofpoetry sees a long lonely road ahead" kind of sense.

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02 Aug 2010, 1:28 pm

Ferdinand wrote:

Erisad wrote:

The whole thing? Is that including myself? I dun wanna be a creeper. D:

No, just the marriage proposal. That's creepy.

You need to get your self on AIM more though.

Oh okay. I'll be on later tonight. I swear. I'm on my mom's lappy right now.

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