How do you prefer to be asked out?

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23 Oct 2010, 10:08 pm

^ Pretty much what I was going to say. Make it clear "Hey, do you want to go out sometime?"
Have some place in mind. If she waffles, then she is likely just being nice and doesn't want to flat out reject you.



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25 Oct 2010, 6:29 am

Guys who just come out with it is sexy. Tell the person you like them and want to get to know them. Own it. Be brave! :D I like putting myself into a situation like that, once you realize you haven't died from a stroke... it really makes you feel alive!



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25 Oct 2010, 6:47 am

happymusic wrote:
Something very clear like "Hey, I was wondering if you'd like to go out with me sometime. Dinner maybe?"

That's clear yet polite.


Great way to ask someone out



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25 Oct 2010, 8:38 am

The technique of choice for the locals where I live goes something like

"oi! fancy a quickie round the back of tesco's, innit"

Who says romance is dead in 21st century england



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25 Oct 2010, 9:07 am

Laz wrote:
The technique of choice for the locals where I live goes something like

"oi! fancy a quickie round the back of tesco's, innit"

Who says romance is dead in 21st century england


Who wouldn't be charmed by that? :lol:


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25 Oct 2010, 9:39 am

sluice wrote:
^ Pretty much what I was going to say. Make it clear "Hey, do you want to go out sometime?"
Have some place in mind. If she waffles, then she is likely just being nice and doesn't want to flat out reject you.


I misread that as "if she likes waffles" and I thought, why would anyone refuse going out for waffles?! :lol:



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25 Oct 2010, 1:18 pm

Kaybee wrote:
Laz wrote:
The technique of choice for the locals where I live goes something like

"oi! fancy a quickie round the back of tesco's, innit"

Who says romance is dead in 21st century england


Who wouldn't be charmed by that? :lol:


The crowds of pregnant single teenager mothers in this town are certainly proof the technique works. Though I think its aided by the plentiful supply of cheap cider as well.



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25 Oct 2010, 5:09 pm

when i ask out people, its rare and special to me, So i usually ask them out in intresting ways. one time i made a waitress bring her, her favorite ice cream, and i had a sign asking her out when she looked back up.

im actually making an online one soon for this gal im intrested in atm.^///^



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25 Oct 2010, 7:39 pm

I have never been put in that position. If it was me making the proposition, I would do it someplace or doing something that my partner enjoys and I will tell her how I feel, and then I will propose to her if she feels like there is a connection.

If someone was asking me, I would make it a point for her to make her feelings known and if I want to pursue a relationship. Preferably doing something I enjoy or somewhere where the atmosphere is conducive.



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25 Oct 2010, 9:22 pm

If someone asked me to be their girlfriend, I'd think they were mentally challenged.
People should go out frequently and really get to know each other before deciding that this person is your bf or gf.



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26 Oct 2010, 4:09 am

Direct, but in a girly way!

Nothing crude or critical, just something like what I've written below...

e.g. Girl: I think that you are just sooooo cute! So would you like to go out with me as I hear that you are looking for a girlfriend?

(Note: All of the time the girl is fidgeting like a school girl, and she looks nice)

This may seem a little like something from a film but that is exactly how my gf asked me out!

She did not quite use the same words, but the manner in which she did this was the same...

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