Joined: 15 Aug 2007 Age: 117 Gender: Male Posts: 4,543 Location: center of universe
23 Oct 2010, 10:08 pm
^ Pretty much what I was going to say. Make it clear "Hey, do you want to go out sometime?"
Have some place in mind. If she waffles, then she is likely just being nice and doesn't want to flat out reject you.
Joined: 12 Oct 2010 Age: 48 Gender: Female Posts: 179
25 Oct 2010, 6:29 am
Guys who just come out with it is sexy. Tell the person you like them and want to get to know them. Own it. Be brave! I like putting myself into a situation like that, once you realize you haven't died from a stroke... it really makes you feel alive!
Joined: 10 Feb 2010 Age: 51 Gender: Female Posts: 3,165 Location: still in ninja land
25 Oct 2010, 9:39 am
sluice wrote:
^ Pretty much what I was going to say. Make it clear "Hey, do you want to go out sometime?" Have some place in mind. If she waffles, then she is likely just being nice and doesn't want to flat out reject you.
I misread that as "if she likes waffles" and I thought, why would anyone refuse going out for waffles?!
Joined: 8 Dec 2005 Age: 44 Gender: Male Posts: 4,540 Location: Dave's Toilet
25 Oct 2010, 1:18 pm
Kaybee wrote:
Laz wrote:
The technique of choice for the locals where I live goes something like
"oi! fancy a quickie round the back of tesco's, innit"
Who says romance is dead in 21st century england
Who wouldn't be charmed by that?
The crowds of pregnant single teenager mothers in this town are certainly proof the technique works. Though I think its aided by the plentiful supply of cheap cider as well.
Joined: 4 Apr 2009 Age: 35 Gender: Male Posts: 627
25 Oct 2010, 5:09 pm
when i ask out people, its rare and special to me, So i usually ask them out in intresting ways. one time i made a waitress bring her, her favorite ice cream, and i had a sign asking her out when she looked back up.
im actually making an online one soon for this gal im intrested in atm.^///^
Joined: 28 Feb 2008 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 1,457 Location: SF Bay Area
25 Oct 2010, 7:39 pm
I have never been put in that position. If it was me making the proposition, I would do it someplace or doing something that my partner enjoys and I will tell her how I feel, and then I will propose to her if she feels like there is a connection.
If someone was asking me, I would make it a point for her to make her feelings known and if I want to pursue a relationship. Preferably doing something I enjoy or somewhere where the atmosphere is conducive.
Joined: 21 Dec 2008 Age: 66 Gender: Female Posts: 3,145
25 Oct 2010, 9:22 pm
If someone asked me to be their girlfriend, I'd think they were mentally challenged.
People should go out frequently and really get to know each other before deciding that this person is your bf or gf.