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hyperlexian
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26 Oct 2010, 12:27 pm

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Man... no one is taken at age 20.

The guy could have been another dude who wants to date her. Of course he'd tell you he's her boyfriend just to drive you away.

Talk to her and casually mention that you've tried calling and some guy answered. Ask who he is.

Or maybe he IS a boyfriend. Maybe they've been together for a while and she's planning on ditching him, so she gave you her number.

Or maybe he's an ex boyfriend.

Who knows. So you should TALK TO HER.

My point is, don't just give up at the first obstacle. If you give up so easily, how could you handle a real relationship and all its challenges?

Get back in there. Get to da choppa! Doo eet nao!

agreed, mostly. criminy, it could been her DAD for all the OP knows.

as Dilbert said, easy way to find out - call, talk to her, and also ask... "who's the dude who answered the phone?"


(but, i disagree that nobody is taken at age 20. some people are even married at that age.)


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26 Oct 2010, 12:55 pm

Dilbert wrote:
Man... no one is taken at age 20.


Where did you get this idea from? :?

Also, just because she was willing to go with you for coffee doesn't necessairly mean she thought of it as a "date."



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26 Oct 2010, 1:02 pm

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I tried calling her tonight, but the person who answered was her boyfriend. She's another girl who is already taken! I feel so pissed off now! :evil:


Ok, Mr. T-Rex, it's time to show her who's the man here!

It's time to ROOAAAAAAR!


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....or to talk.



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26 Oct 2010, 1:56 pm

Damn, girls who just gives your phone number you cannot always guarantee you that it will go down well, you should have justvgotten to know the person and just talk to her first before you start making all these moves.

Sorry that didn't go too well BradonSP.


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26 Oct 2010, 9:12 pm

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Just dont get your hopes up. I got a phone number once and it didnt lead anywhere...

:roll: Toad I don't know what to tell you man. Everything has already been said to you.

All singles get phone numbers all the time, and it mostly doesn't go anywhere.

You have to meet a lot of people to find The One.

You make it sound like it's a total and utter failure because one number "didn't go anywhere". What did you expect? An immediate commited relationship and sex? A phone number can, but not always, get you one (1) date with someone. That's all.

Go out there and meet people. Meet lots of new people. Share common interests. Ask them about their lives. Etc... Everyone does this dude. It is nothing weird or scary.

Do you want each new day of your life to resemble the last, or do you want to break out of your routine and make something of yourself? Suck it up and just do it.


Way to take me out of context (actually pretty easy to do, so whatever)...

My point to make was that just because you have a number doesn't mean you "have it made", so to speak, as the OP sounded like he was already in a relationship based on a phone number...