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24 Nov 2010, 4:31 am

I thought I was the one who was supposed to be posting these rules :/

when I have time I should link my version of them


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24 Nov 2010, 6:32 am

The real truth...

People are stupid animals, most of whom are confused. Work on yourself, find people who are not dumb, have unrealistic expectations or are confused... Good luck!



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24 Nov 2010, 6:36 am

Craig28 wrote:
You should have put that this is the female version. This gave it away: Quit blaming women. Only a woman would ever say that.


No, I've said it before at least once on this forum. It's great advice.


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24 Nov 2010, 10:37 am

No one has ever stated that I should also be blaming men. Sorry ladies, your high horses aren't high or strong enough for your feminine ego's.



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24 Nov 2010, 10:43 am

Craig28 wrote:
No one has ever stated that I should also be blaming men. Sorry ladies, your high horses aren't high or strong enough for your feminine ego's.


How is it men's fault you can't get a girl? :?



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24 Nov 2010, 10:48 am

emlion wrote:
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No one has ever stated that I should also be blaming men. Sorry ladies, your high horses aren't high or strong enough for your feminine ego's.


How is it men's fault you can't get a girl? :?


I was stating that men and women are both to blame, not just women.

Other then that, I am tongue tied and confused about what we are talking about and am being trolled by other posters. I really don't blame anyone, I don't have the time to.



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24 Nov 2010, 11:23 am

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Whatever. I don't care. I will just keep screwing the woman I am seeing at the moment.

At least I don't have to hear her go on about her emotions and her hopes and dreams. I barely have time for myself these days.


Why on Earth would you want a relationship in which you don't care about your partner's hopes and dreams? :?



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24 Nov 2010, 11:48 am

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Any guy can find a partner, it's a matter of having realistic standards. If you're getting rejected by the same type of women over and over again, then you're out of your league.


We are all human, regardless of how good looking or how wealthy we are. The woman that rejected me was hot, but she was also a working class taxpayer who worked at a hairdressers. There was nothing special about her life. You see, its all in her mind, she thinks she is so hot. Thats the problem with a lot of women today. They have unrealistic standards about their personal selves.


It's all about image. Just because you're not someone's image of the ideal mate doesn't make you sub-par. People are allowed to have whatever standards they want, even if it's based on delusions that exclude unfairly.

On the bright side, people with over-inflated opinions of themselves are the most likely to be tricked. They've been lying to themselves so long that it's easy for an even better liar to stroke thier ego and take advantage of them.



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24 Nov 2010, 11:48 am

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Whatever. I don't care. I will just keep screwing the woman I am seeing at the moment.

At least I don't have to hear her go on about her emotions and her hopes and dreams. I barely have time for myself these days.


Why on Earth would you want a relationship in which you don't care about your partner's hopes and dreams? :?


I would love a relationship where I care about her hopes and dreams. I would even offer to help her get where she needs to be. I was refering to the prostitute I am seeing. That when I see her, I don't have to listen to her sob stories. Thats not why I am there.



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24 Nov 2010, 11:52 am

deadeyexx wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
nilescrane wrote:
Any guy can find a partner, it's a matter of having realistic standards. If you're getting rejected by the same type of women over and over again, then you're out of your league.


We are all human, regardless of how good looking or how wealthy we are. The woman that rejected me was hot, but she was also a working class taxpayer who worked at a hairdressers. There was nothing special about her life. You see, its all in her mind, she thinks she is so hot. Thats the problem with a lot of women today. They have unrealistic standards about their personal selves.


It's all about image. Just because you're not someone's image of the ideal mate doesn't make you sub-par. People are allowed to have whatever standards they want, even if it's based on delusions that exclude unfairly.

On the bright side, people with over-inflated opinions of themselves are the most likely to be tricked. They've been lying to themselves so long that it's easy for an even better liar to stroke thier ego and take advantage of them.


Like the sexy hairdresser that rejected me. She knew she was beautiful and I knew that she was beautiful. She rejected me because she thought I wanted to screw her brains out. She never stayed around long enough to hear the reason why I wanted to take her out: to be a friend to her. Any sex would have been suggested by her, not me, I wouldn't push women for anything. I don't have a line of them waiting for me and so any women I get my eye on would be given the upmost respect.



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24 Nov 2010, 1:57 pm

Craig28 wrote:
deadeyexx wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
nilescrane wrote:
Any guy can find a partner, it's a matter of having realistic standards. If you're getting rejected by the same type of women over and over again, then you're out of your league.


We are all human, regardless of how good looking or how wealthy we are. The woman that rejected me was hot, but she was also a working class taxpayer who worked at a hairdressers. There was nothing special about her life. You see, its all in her mind, she thinks she is so hot. Thats the problem with a lot of women today. They have unrealistic standards about their personal selves.


It's all about image. Just because you're not someone's image of the ideal mate doesn't make you sub-par. People are allowed to have whatever standards they want, even if it's based on delusions that exclude unfairly.

On the bright side, people with over-inflated opinions of themselves are the most likely to be tricked. They've been lying to themselves so long that it's easy for an even better liar to stroke thier ego and take advantage of them.


Like the sexy hairdresser that rejected me. She knew she was beautiful and I knew that she was beautiful. She rejected me because she thought I wanted to screw her brains out. She never stayed around long enough to hear the reason why I wanted to take her out: to be a friend to her. Any sex would have been suggested by her, not me, I wouldn't push women for anything. I don't have a line of them waiting for me and so any women I get my eye on would be given the upmost respect.


You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make her drink. So, move on, lots of thirsty horses out there.



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24 Nov 2010, 5:09 pm

Craig28 wrote:
She rejected me because she thought I wanted to screw her brains out. She never stayed around long enough to hear the reason why I wanted to take her out: to be a friend to her. Any sex would have been suggested by her, not me, I wouldn't push women for anything. I don't have a line of them waiting for me and so any women I get my eye on would be given the upmost respect.


How do you know thats what she thought? Maybe she just wasn't interested. Maybe she has enough friends. Maybe she doesn't have anything to talk about with random males shes not attracted to.

What makes you so important as to think that people should want to know you? People don't want to know me, they have their own friends, their own interests, they won't just befriend randoms for the sake of it. And tbh they shouldn't have to.



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24 Nov 2010, 5:33 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
She rejected me because she thought I wanted to screw her brains out. She never stayed around long enough to hear the reason why I wanted to take her out: to be a friend to her. Any sex would have been suggested by her, not me, I wouldn't push women for anything. I don't have a line of them waiting for me and so any women I get my eye on would be given the upmost respect.


How do you know thats what she thought? Maybe she just wasn't interested. Maybe she has enough friends. Maybe she doesn't have anything to talk about with random males shes not attracted to.

What makes you so important as to think that people should want to know you? People don't want to know me, they have their own friends, their own interests, they won't just befriend randoms for the sake of it. And tbh they shouldn't have to.


I think you're missing his overall point. Women are approached so often they often develop ways of cutting short interactions that are often extremely rude instead of just telling the truth.



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24 Nov 2010, 5:41 pm

For someone who is not a woman you sure seem to know a lot about living as a woman. :roll:



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24 Nov 2010, 5:47 pm

menintights wrote:
1. Go outside and start talking to people (read: people, not just women you happen to be attracted to).

2. Quit whining.

3. Quit blaming women because you think they don't know what's good for them.

4. Quit hating on bad boys for being so much hotter and sexier than you'll ever be. And most importantly:

5. Quit being an ass.

You should also try eating your vegetables and drinking your milk. I hear women like their men health-conscious.

i don't know what this is an abridged version of, but it sounds a lot like nilescrane's list. just more blunt.


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24 Nov 2010, 5:55 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
menintights wrote:
1. Go outside and start talking to people (read: people, not just women you happen to be attracted to).

2. Quit whining.

3. Quit blaming women because you think they don't know what's good for them.

4. Quit hating on bad boys for being so much hotter and sexier than you'll ever be. And most importantly:

5. Quit being an ass.

You should also try eating your vegetables and drinking your milk. I hear women like their men health-conscious.

i don't know what this is an abridged version of, but it sounds a lot like nilescrane's list. just more blunt.


Those weren't my points at all, other than the blaming women part.