Guys -- who would you choose? (Alternate scenario)

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13 Dec 2010, 11:01 pm

Girl #1 makes sense, girl #2 doesn't. I can't figure a girl as attractive and well rounded as #2 being a ditz (doing crappy in a junior college, can't cook, etc.), usually if a girl like that ends up that way its because she was too geeky to fit in with the popular girls and cheerleaders, even with good social skills.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:03 pm

where do the girls shop at? I think the places they shop are a somewhat decent clue into their personality and tastes.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:10 pm

i would choose #3.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:18 pm

auntblabby wrote:
i would choose #3.

I were given the choice between girls #1, #2, and #3, I'm pretty sure I'd go take a #2.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:21 pm

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Just a question -- why the assumption that Girl 1 needs validation? Is it because of her feminine qualities?

yeah, wow. there was some large amounts of judgement going on... really about both of them.


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13 Dec 2010, 11:25 pm

What, neither of them is 5'4"?



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13 Dec 2010, 11:26 pm

KnowRainSupreme wrote:
Just a question -- why the assumption that Girl 1 needs validation? Is it because of her feminine qualities?


Um...yes. Kind of. Most likely because I have experienced a Girl 1 subtype.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:30 pm

girl #1 seems like a stereotypical "nice girl", based only on the information provided

girl #2 seems like a stereotypical "bad girl", again just based on information provided


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13 Dec 2010, 11:31 pm

Pandora_Box wrote:
KnowRainSupreme wrote:
Just a question -- why the assumption that Girl 1 needs validation? Is it because of her feminine qualities?


Um...yes. Kind of. Most likely because I have experienced a Girl 1 subtype.


Yeah, Girl 2 doesn't exactly sound like she isn't trying too hard either.

I generally try not to write off people like Girl 1, but if I ever see Girl 2 in real life you better bet I'm gonna judge her right and left.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:33 pm

menintights wrote:
Yeah, Girl 2 doesn't exactly sound like she isn't trying too hard either.

I generally try not to write off people like Girl 1, but if I ever see Girl 2 in real life you better bet I'm gonna judge her right and left.


See I mean all reality. I don't really like either Girl 1 or Girl 2.


I think I'm going to take auntblabby choice and go for Girl 3. hahahaa because she doesn't exist in this survey.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:43 pm

Seriously, so I have to choose between weekly vs. monthly? How is it that girl 2 would only have sex weekly, if she likes it so much? Granted you specified intercourse specifically, so maybe there are other sexual activities involved, but still, neither of them is sexual enough. I guess girl 2 is better though.

How kinky are they? What do they like in bed?

What is their approach to food? What do they like to eat?

How much personal time/attention/validation would they expect from me?

And you still didn't answer why you're asking this... are these based on people you know?



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14 Dec 2010, 12:15 am

Both Girl 1 and Girl 2 are caricatures, not real people.

And I do not think OP knows enough "bad girls" (i.e. Girl 2s) to know how they really are underneath the surface.



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14 Dec 2010, 1:14 am

I think I wood get o n better with Goirl 1

I don't care if she is "overweight", they are pretty too.

As long as she isn't harsh enuf to cause me to tAntrum
I am ok with this, she'd have to realise I don't get
alot of growedup talk so she'd have to either break it down
for me if she wanted me to get it if its that need to me to
know about it.

I have my own religion but it is Christian-based so it shood
not clash too bad with hers, as I would not judge hers either,
or try to 'convert' her Unless she asked me to.

I have had better fortune with monogamy ships so that is
no problem.

I think that a structured girl like her wood be better for me
since I need just a pinch of routine/structure, not so strict
it wood cause malfunctions because I forget things.

I wood be perfectly willing to stay at home to care for
the kids if we had any whilst she works.

I'd hope she wood realise also that I don't get growedup
programmes on telly so if I left her to watch her stuff
and she left me to watch mine (I mostly watch shows that
are th*t of as kid's programmes) it wood work out much
better, none of this 1 telly only stuff, I'd wander off and
get into things.

I use my mac to record stuff off telly and if I like it I
take the time to edit adverts out and then save it
to a dvd, so let her use her dvr, I have what I need
already for my stuff I record.

Girl1 is drug free so she's good for me.

If Girl1 did not mind someone who was 42 on the
outside but 7 on the inside, then good. I'd rather
she be older like around 55-60 but since she has
a good soul I'm not complaining.

I want nothing to do with Girl 2 she wood cause me many
tantrums and seizures most likely.

Ok done reading threads so far.

Girl 1 is the best fit for me, she is kind and soft
and nice, just the one I wood need to keep the
home all put together, the outside world will not
hire me so I need someone to care for me, I can
care for a couple of kids and a kittypuss whilst
she is out making the bread, and I can automate
most of the cleaning with machines, I cook much
better than I can clean, so if she wood swap that
I'd be good for it. Kind but structured woman,
good soul, and bright.

If only.

But that is another story all together.


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14 Dec 2010, 2:37 am

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How old are they?
Girl 1 is 19.
Girl 2 is 21.

What are their sex drives like?
Girl 1 sees sexual intercourse as expression of love instead of a recreational activity. In a typical relationship, Girl 1 would engage in intercourse only after she has known the guy for a period of 6 months or longer. In a typical relationship, Girl 1 will engage in intercourse monthly.

Girl 2 enjoys regular intercourse as a recreational activity, especially at the end of a long day. In a typical relationship, she will engage in intercourse weekly, and usually she will engage in intercourse during the first month of the relationship.

What books/movies/TV shows do they like?

Girl 1 likes True Blood, Jersey Shore, American Idol, and The Hills. Her favorite movie is the Notebook. She reads Harry Potter, Agatha Christie, Twilight and Nancy Drew.

Girl 2 watches Ninja Warrior, Survivorman, American Gangster and Warren The Ape. Her favorite movie is The Big Lebowski. Her favorite books are The Zen Motorcycle Diaries, Thus Sprach Zarathusta (Nietzsche), and Living Wicca.

Are they gonna comfort me and listen to me when I'm down?
Girl 1 would definitely comfort you. She enjoys listening, responding helpfully, and knows how not to step on your toes. Girl 1 is likely to respond to this situation with a hug or snuggling. Girl 1 sees these situations as a way of strengthening the relationship.

Girl 2 will usually comfort you, but it will depend on what mood she is in. If she's had a rough day, she may respond sarcastically or ignore you. She is willing to listen, but only to a degree. Girl 2 is a bit unsympathetic in these sorts of situations. Girl 2 sees these situations as sort of a hassle, but understands that they occur in most relationships.


I was going to say girl 2 anyways, but after reading that I'm going to say it in caps.

GIRL 2 GIRL 2 GIRL 2 GIRL 2

I would love to have a girl like girl 2. She would want sex more than once a week though.
I'd probably choose girl 3 over girl 1



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14 Dec 2010, 6:25 am

Girl 2 definitely



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14 Dec 2010, 9:13 am

What kind of guys do these girls like? What are they looking for in a relationship?