Valentines Day...... it's freaking me out.

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there's a place in her town that delivers cupcakes....... and you can have messages put on them...

and she knows I have feelings for her, it's more of the distance between us and my disabliities preventing anything "real" for happening. and then I think it's best that it just ends now, because my recovery is taking too long and blah, blah, blah. It's just wasting her time and getting my hopes up.

I don't believe it's a waste of anyone's time. Good things can happen to people with disabilities too. The truth is we all have disabilities or disadvantages of some kind, some are not as obvious as other's. There are ways of living around them, like anything else. You know how many women would love to receive cupcakes on Valentine's Day? Millions.

Agreed.
Cupcakes, especially personalised ones is such a beautiful gift.

I don't know how to do the quote right, but I agree with the above.

"I would just straight out ask her for the address of the best place to send her something for Valentine's Day.

Tell her that you don't feel comfortable asking for her address but you do really want to send her something, so it's needed."

Cupcakes are perfect! Not too romantic, but friendly.

It sounds as if you are giving up on her because of your health. How about letting her decide if that's an issue? How to you know if you don't even try?

It reminds me of the song "You Don't Know Me" not sure that's the title of it, but the words are fitting.

crisis averted, she flirts with everybody like that.

so that was silly.....

thanks for the ideas, sorry i wasted your brain power.