Kaybee wrote:
I came here to say this:
MidlifeAspie wrote:
You single folks should not let a corporate holiday invented by the greeting card and flower industry get you down. Being single on VD is no different than being single on any other day. And being single is always better than being in a bad relationship.
and this:
Moog wrote:
I'll be single, but I don't tend to celebrate these holidays. I'm not sure that I should celebrate the deaths of saints.
I have never understood how people buy into this corporate event. Yes, I know: "It's about showing your partner that you love and appreciate them." To me, receiving something for Valentine's Day is meaningless: The motivation for the gift is a commercial holiday. A gift of a Reese's Peanu Butter Cup on a random day of the year is far more meaningful than a romantic evening on Valentine's Day.
To me it is the romantic thing. And I dont really view it as a mass-consumer thing. Sure there is mass consumer stuff going on, but it is still a romantic day. I love getting flowers.
But if you are single, the day means that you have to sort of take stock of it and console yourself about it. It is a day to face the fact that you are not sure what to do with your life, being single is just a side effect of that.
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