22 Feb 2011, 7:16 pm
Jamie8675309
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 30 Jan 2009
Age: 33
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22 Feb 2011, 7:28 pm
Then she'd be rebounding, which means the relationship is doomed from the start. Unless he's willing to pull the tricks that boys pull when they're pretending to be a girl's friend (eg. saying things like "if I was your boyfriend...", flirting, finding excuses to be closer, giving her "friend" gifts, etc), then he runs the risk of only being considered a friend. And, if he's going to pull the tricks, then he's being underhanded and sleazy, which I'm sure is something the OP does not want to be.
Not only is this unlikely to be successful, like you said, but it's also a colossal amount of work and I'm just not sure any person is worth it.
When i think about it since she's not sending me signals the only way i could make any sort of progression with her is to simply become her freind, which i can't be bothered doing as its very likely i won't get anywhere and as simon said it would probably be a colossal amount of work.
Well put, being there when the tree falls would be my ideal situation, but as i've mentioned since she's not sending me signals i don't think i can actually be there when the tree falls, as in if she's not taking an interest in me now then i doubt she'll show interest in the future.
although now i've thought about it i think my whole idea of "winning her over" was a bit far fetched in general. im pretty inexperienced with talking and befreinding woman. given that im already dealing with a fair bit of anxiety when talking to girls, talking to a girl who's most likely not currently looking for a relationship and doesn't take too much interest in me will just make it even harder. the potnetial relationship (even a cool freindship) you'd working towards just wouldn't exist, so there's not much reward in the whole thing.
tbh i didn't think we have much in common, suppose i was pretty happy that i was able to exchange more than a couple of sentences with a girl about anything other than class (which rarely happens) and didn't want to blow the whole thing. its definatly not as a big deal as i was making it out to be earlier in the thread
thanks for your responses guys, i think for now i'll refocus on getting to know girls in general (although feel free to discuss away)
22 Feb 2011, 7:53 pm
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22 Feb 2011, 9:55 pm
Only little boys. Men don't try and steal other mens girls.
Go girl!! You tell 'em Emlion!!
22 Feb 2011, 11:41 pm
23 Feb 2011, 12:01 am
23 Feb 2011, 2:36 am
Well Jamie8675309 you could break them up. Get yourself a pair of woman's panties ball them up for a few days. Find her boyfriend's car put the panties under one of his car seats. Get a male friend she does not know to call her to tell her to tell her boyfriend to stay away from his wife. Then tell her he caught them screwing in his car go look for evidence. Also put a condome wrapper under the seat.
I did this to a resteraunt manager when he was causing trouble for me telling everyone I was ret*d and they should not be picking on me. It was his way of calling me a ret*d to my face and not get into trouble. He came in with a fat lip and scratches around his neck he never suspected it was me and I got his wife to kick his ass, 
If the shoe was on the other foot some NT guy would do the same to you.
But as a disclaimer if she is not into you even without the boyfriend then you will still be without her and she will never trust men again. 
So ignore what I said above. I would never use this technique to get a girlfriend but only to screw someone over.
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23 Feb 2011, 2:39 am
Ahaha Todesking, if that's a true story then you're awesome.
23 Feb 2011, 2:48 am
Seriously, do this to someone who his screwing with you. I got the idea from watching Jerry Springer half the women on that show found panties, ear rings, and open condome wrappers when they caught their husbands/boyfriends cheating on them. I called his wife from the phone at work right at the bar. I also sprayed the heater inside his car with skunk sent.
I also made a fake a child molester notice once and put a guy's face on it. My mom gets child molester notices all the time because she works at a school so I could do a simple cut and past job with photoshop. I gave it to him as a joke slash warning. My fellow employees bet me I could not pull it off. I made it so outlandish any idiot could see it was fake but it did let them know not to mess with me.
23 Feb 2011, 3:05 am
23 Feb 2011, 3:07 am
That's a great idea; that would be fun to do should the occasion arise. 
But I've realized that a romantic relationship is too much work, a waste of time, and not worth it. No offense to the procreators out there though. 
23 Feb 2011, 3:13 am
23 Feb 2011, 3:16 am
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Youtube has posts that show you how to get into school lockers. I could only imagine the trouble I could have caused for bullies in high school if youtube existed when I was a teenager.
