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25 Apr 2011, 7:45 am

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As for Dolores Umbridge, you can see the evil in her eyes.

Did you take your pills this morning? :chin:


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25 Apr 2011, 8:29 am

chinatown wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
As for Dolores Umbridge, you can see the evil in her eyes.

Did you take your pills this morning? :chin:



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25 Apr 2011, 9:51 am

Why does this remind me of the Graham Norton show? When that famous woman (who's a lesbian), told everyone on TV that she gave a BJ to a guy and stating she was being a "Nice Girl" as a "Bad one" would have intercourse. XD


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25 Apr 2011, 1:44 pm

A nice girl is really a b***h in disguise ive dated women like that but I dont care if girls are mean to me in a way its a lot like flirting to me but some times they can be nice because thats how they really are



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25 Apr 2011, 2:11 pm

Um...isn't this the same as the nice guy debate? The "nice" people behave in a pleasant way usually for an ulterior motive. Genuinely nice people are pleasant because that's how they naturally behave. Not saying that the genuinely nice people are 100% sunshine, rainbows and puppies but just that their motivation for their behavior is genuine. However, there are people that switch how "nice" they are between different people. Like how I force myself to be nice to a boss because I have to or I'll get fired but when I'm with my friends, I'm naturally inclined to be happy and pleasant to them. Does this make sense at all? >.>



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25 Apr 2011, 2:33 pm

Erisad wrote:
Um...isn't this the same as the nice guy debate? The "nice" people behave in a pleasant way usually for an ulterior motive. Genuinely nice people are pleasant because that's how they naturally behave. Not saying that the genuinely nice people are 100% sunshine, rainbows and puppies but just that their motivation for their behavior is genuine. However, there are people that switch how "nice" they are between different people. Like how I force myself to be nice to a boss because I have to or I'll get fired but when I'm with my friends, I'm naturally inclined to be happy and pleasant to them. Does this make sense at all? >.>


Of cousre it works both ways I do the same thing im nice to certin people not because I want to be nice but I feel obligated to here is a example of mother has some friends I dont like but im nice to them because they are my moms friend but when she isnt around I let them know how I really feel about them so I can be nice when she is around then strait up mean when my mother isnt their I am very good at being two faced not something im proud of but its something im good at



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25 Apr 2011, 4:04 pm

A nice girl is one who is not friendly with every single guy she meets. That's a "girl of honor". This is not the same as "b***h" however.

A 'nice' girl is a whore/slut in disguise.



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25 Apr 2011, 6:09 pm

Erisad wrote:
Um...isn't this the same as the nice guy debate? The "nice" people behave in a pleasant way usually for an ulterior motive. Genuinely nice people are pleasant because that's how they naturally behave. Not saying that the genuinely nice people are 100% sunshine, rainbows and puppies but just that their motivation for their behavior is genuine. However, there are people that switch how "nice" they are between different people. Like how I force myself to be nice to a boss because I have to or I'll get fired but when I'm with my friends, I'm naturally inclined to be happy and pleasant to them. Does this make sense at all? >.>


Erisad said it the same way I'd say it.


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25 Apr 2011, 7:52 pm

I don't bother hiding that I'm a bad girl. :twisted:



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25 Apr 2011, 9:03 pm

Erisad wrote:
Um...isn't this the same as the nice guy debate? The "nice" people behave in a pleasant way usually for an ulterior motive.


Well said.



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25 Apr 2011, 9:46 pm

Yaaaay people agree with me! ^.^



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25 Apr 2011, 11:07 pm

Erisad wrote:
Yaaaay people agree with me! ^.^


I do... but I also understand that some men will usually want to use any excuse they can find to call women "sluts". See: definition for Nice Guys. :wink:



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26 Apr 2011, 6:52 am

MCalavera wrote:
A nice girl is one who is not friendly with every single guy she meets. That's a "girl of honor". This is not the same as "b***h" however.

A 'nice' girl is a whore/slut in disguise.


There is some problem with being female and having had multiple sexual partners?


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26 Apr 2011, 6:54 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
A nice girl is one who is not friendly with every single guy she meets. That's a "girl of honor". This is not the same as "b***h" however.

A 'nice' girl is a whore/slut in disguise.


There is some problem with being female and having had multiple sexual partners?


There is? I didn't know there was.



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26 Apr 2011, 6:58 am

MCalavera wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
A nice girl is one who is not friendly with every single guy she meets. That's a "girl of honor". This is not the same as "b***h" however.

A 'nice' girl is a whore/slut in disguise.


There is some problem with being female and having had multiple sexual partners?


There is? I didn't know there was.


The last sentence of your post made it seem as though it was. Apologies if I've misread.


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26 Apr 2011, 7:05 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
A nice girl is one who is not friendly with every single guy she meets. That's a "girl of honor". This is not the same as "b***h" however.

A 'nice' girl is a whore/slut in disguise.


There is some problem with being female and having had multiple sexual partners?


There is? I didn't know there was.


The last sentence of your post made it seem as though it was. Apologies if I've misread.


That's alright. I should explain it better,

That post was meant to make a distinction between two kinds of girls who display niceness.

The first kind is a genuinely nice girl who doesn't aim to lead on any desperate guy for her own satisfaction but is otherwise kind and polite with people around her (whether she's a virgin or has had multiple sex partners).

The second kind is the kind that goes around f*****g with men's feelings and leading them on by acting like "nice" girls who would never harm a soul in any way when in fact they're the total opposite. That's what I meant by "whore" or "slut" by the way.

Hope this clears up any confusion that may have arised from my post.