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29 May 2011, 9:43 pm

One day the universe will collapse on into itself and form a black hole that exists in another universe.



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29 May 2011, 9:49 pm

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Thanks. Ferrous amphibian on WP? What?

Facial structure is the problem. Without plastic surgery it's a lost cause.


Stop putting yourself down, it is a "boner killer".

If it is not major disfigurement due to injury, you're fine.

Given that you are not overweight, you have a leg up on the vast majority of girls out there.

Read this.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/03/07/ ... -for-game/


Thanks for the insight on not putting yourself down - so the Sun tells the Earth! I didn't believe him though. Why is it, ahem, that phrase you used? I need to understand this. It endears me when the Sun puts himself down. Makes me feel protective and want him even more. Maybe it only works that way cause he's actually hot though. And I'm not, therefore my self-derogatory comments only draw attention to my physical flaws? Is that it?

Oh and I believe all body types are beautiful, that's a cultural thing I think that thin is seen as pretty. I know many beautiful women who are voluptuous/zaftig in part BECAUSE of their zaftigness.


Read this

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/01/29/ ... lity-game/

You mean something like this?

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Or this?


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29 May 2011, 9:50 pm

On playing the victim - how else to let people know you are sad and lonely and need people to lean on and care for you and love you? It's not an act any more than breathing or walking is one. Don't be so hard on your former self and others like him! :D



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29 May 2011, 9:53 pm

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Thanks. Ferrous amphibian on WP? What?

Facial structure is the problem. Without plastic surgery it's a lost cause.


Stop putting yourself down, it is a "boner killer".

If it is not major disfigurement due to injury, you're fine.

Given that you are not overweight, you have a leg up on the vast majority of girls out there.

Read this.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2008/03/07/ ... -for-game/


Thanks for the insight on not putting yourself down - so the Sun tells the Earth! I didn't believe him though. Why is it, ahem, that phrase you used? I need to understand this. It endears me when the Sun puts himself down. Makes me feel protective and want him even more. Maybe it only works that way cause he's actually hot though. And I'm not, therefore my self-derogatory comments only draw attention to my physical flaws? Is that it?

Oh and I believe all body types are beautiful, that's a cultural thing I think that thin is seen as pretty. I know many beautiful women who are voluptuous/zaftig in part BECAUSE of their zaftigness.


Negativity from a girl is a "boner killer" it makes a guy unattracted to a girl.

There is a girl at my work who has a pretty face and a nice body but she is very neurotic and not fun to be around and I cannot remotely think about her when I pleasure myself.



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29 May 2011, 9:54 pm

Size acceptance. A health problem falls into another category. Don't rain the parade of people who happen to have a serious health problem (severe obesity) if they feel like countering stereotypes of what's "acceptable" and wearing bikinis. Those pictures as a ridiculing meme are so hurtful and small-minded.



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29 May 2011, 9:55 pm

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On playing the victim - how else to let people know you are sad and lonely and need people to lean on and care for you and love you? It's not an act any more than breathing or walking is one. Don't be so hard on your former self and others like him! :D


Men need to be men and toughen up. The more a man can take care of himself, the better off he will be.



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29 May 2011, 9:56 pm

Time isn't necessarily linear.



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29 May 2011, 9:58 pm

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On playing the victim - how else to let people know you are sad and lonely and need people to lean on and care for you and love you? It's not an act any more than breathing or walking is one. Don't be so hard on your former self and others like him! :D


Men need to be men and toughen up. The more a man can take care of himself, the better off he will be.


Coming from a bisexual woman who is attracted to people with androgynous personality traits... I respect your opinion but personally I think people should be people and there shouldn't be definitions for what a man "should" be. I like quite vulnerable and sensitive men, some would say feminine in many regards. I can't be the only one.



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29 May 2011, 9:59 pm

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Size acceptance. A health problem falls into another category. Don't rain the parade of people who happen to have a serious health problem (severe obesity) if they feel like countering stereotypes of what's "acceptable" and wearing bikinis. Those pictures as a ridiculing meme are so hurtful and small-minded.

Anyway, I do appreciate your help very much and want to understand why putting myself down is a... b.k.


I'm getting a mental picture of you now. You probably have the Talia Shire thing going. WHich can actually be pretty hot if you know how to play it right.

Google "hot nerdy girl" in google images and start playing around with different looks.



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29 May 2011, 10:01 pm

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Negativity from a girl is a "boner killer" it makes a guy unattracted to a girl.

There is a girl at my work who has a pretty face and a nice body but she is very neurotic and not fun to be around and I cannot remotely think about her when I pleasure myself.




Gotcha. Interesting. Neuroticism and self-criticism is attractive to me.Thanks for the input. I did not realize this was possible.


Didn't realize what was possible?



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29 May 2011, 10:03 pm

I think that there is infinite space and time between all things. That means it takes no time or space at all, .000000..forever, as well as all the time, 1000000000000..forever to get from anything to anything else. Because infinity plus .000000..forever = infinity plus 1000000000000..forever = infinity. Nothing ever touches and everything is one inseparable ball at once.



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29 May 2011, 10:04 pm

How can something be nothing and everything at once?



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29 May 2011, 10:06 pm

If the sun ever got too close to the Earth it would burn up. Let's pretend the sun were a space ship.

Ideally, the space ship should get no closer to the sun than the Earth does. If it find itself in an unstable orbit such that it was approaching the sun, bad things would happen and it would burn up. That is just how physics is.

Should the space ship find itself on an approach to the sun, it should turn itself around immediately and put thrusters at full to distance itself from the sun. There are many other things for the space ship to orbit in the universe.

Perhaps someday someone will invent shields to make it safe for the space ship to get as close as it wants to the sun, but such an excursion is not possible right now.

Leave the sun as it is and set your sights on a different celestial object. You might find one far more interesting than the sun that you can land on and live on.



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29 May 2011, 10:12 pm

There you go again putting yourself down.

STOP IT! :evil:

I use Talia Shire as an archetype/sexy stereotype that it sounds like you could model yourself off of.

Given that we have 6 billion plus humans on this planet, we are bound to run into more than a few who happen to look alike.

Good examples would be:

"tatooed girl with dark hair". Go on suicidegirls.com for long enough and the girls will start to look all the same.

"Ditzy Blonde" would be Reese Witherspoon, britney spears, hilary duff, young cameron diaz

"brunette bad girl" would be eliza dushku

"girl next door" would be Kristen Stewart, Talia Shire,

"hot librarian" would be talia shire again

"schoolgirl" would be a young britney spears

"sexy asian chick"

Hollywood and media play on our base impulses so the actresses who make it would be those who can fulfill certain fantasies or be the projection board for those fantasies



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29 May 2011, 10:16 pm

Chronos wrote:
If the sun ever got too close to the Earth it would burn up. Let's pretend the sun were a space ship.

Ideally, the space ship should get no closer to the sun than the Earth does. If it find itself in an unstable orbit such that it was approaching the sun, bad things would happen and it would burn up. That is just how physics is.

Should the space ship find itself on an approach to the sun, it should turn itself around immediately and put thrusters at full to distance itself from the sun. There are many other things for the space ship to orbit in the universe.

Perhaps someday someone will invent shields to make it safe for the space ship to get as close as it wants to the sun, but such an excursion is not possible right now.

Leave the sun as it is and set your sights on a different celestial object. You might find one far more interesting than the sun that you can land on and live on.


Thanks. You are right. Only problem is I already booked a space shuttle to the sun. Bad idea huh. Even if I hadn't I can't imagine finding a more interesting celestial object.



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29 May 2011, 10:18 pm

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If the sun ever got too close to the Earth it would burn up. Let's pretend the sun were a space ship.

Ideally, the space ship should get no closer to the sun than the Earth does. If it find itself in an unstable orbit such that it was approaching the sun, bad things would happen and it would burn up. That is just how physics is.

Should the space ship find itself on an approach to the sun, it should turn itself around immediately and put thrusters at full to distance itself from the sun. There are many other things for the space ship to orbit in the universe.

Perhaps someday someone will invent shields to make it safe for the space ship to get as close as it wants to the sun, but such an excursion is not possible right now.

Leave the sun as it is and set your sights on a different celestial object. You might find one far more interesting than the sun that you can land on and live on.


Thanks. You are right. Only problem is I already booked a space shuttle to the sun. Bad idea huh. Even if I hadn't I can't imagine finding a more interesting celestial object.


Hypergamy sucks doesn't it?

Follow my advice and you will find a guy attractive enough to satisfy your biological imperative.