I want to recommend a dating site that I recommend to my NT friends. I am an NT female who is heavily involved in online gaming...specifically MMORPGs. I love all things that seem geeky, like Star Trek, STNG, Buffy, Lord of the Rings, comic books, anime, science fiction and horror movies, etc. The guys I know from the game also seem to love these things and hope to find girls that share that love. So I found a dating site that caters to people who love these things. It's called Geek 2 Geek and it's located at: http://www.gk2gk.com/
I guess if you enjoy the same things that I do, this is a good alternative website for you because at least you have something in common with the girls on it. That's a good starting point. Places like POF etc are so generic if you are a geek like me 