Money value of Aspie Males Eligibility

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It isn't about the woman spending your money or anything like that. It is about perception.

One aspie my may give on an image of having learning difficulties, if he turns up in a half decent car,
some may think he may not have learning difficulties after all.

Another aspie may give an image of being a mummies boy, who is highly dependent on mum, if he is
doing well he might actually be taking care of mum have the resources to take car of any new family.
Wouldn't this be a positive thing.

Another aspie may lack Alpha male qualities, but because he has done well, he holds more power then the leader of some gang.

Some aspies my give of an image of being insane. There is a quote the difference between insane and genius
is money.

Some aspies my give of an image of being lazy winger, if he is doing well, then he either hard working or genius.

The advantage NTs an advantage by their ability to blag in influence people and aspies do not have that. There is nothing wring with attaining power by other mains. And there is nothing wrong with that as it, much of the finer qualities of human nature.

I understand what you're saying but none of those things hold any weight for me, not with an AS person, not with an NT person. I'm sort of suspicious of anyone who puts too much self- validation into their possessions and external trappings, actually; it's very, very unattractive to me.

No MV not in external trappings but in qualities such as; Hard work, persistence, patience, intelligence, discipline, bravery, wisdom and general healthy attitude etc. Career wise the more you put in, the more you get out. Love wise, it isn't the case.

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Money is certainly a factor in how some people choose their partners, indeed in how the average female chooses her partner. It is human nature to choose a partner with betetr resources to care for your offspring.

Generally, middle aged men are more likely to date young women than middle aged women, because they have the resources to attract a younger woman (who has the fertility to attract a rich man).

I don't think the question has legs, though. Most women don't choose their partner based solely on their material resources. Personality will play a bigger part. An Aspie earning much more than an NT of similar background, personality and physical attraction will probably be less successful because the NT will have better social skills, and those are all important. Earning extra money doesn't "make up" for personality and socialibility "defects" for most women.

Right, those are all admirable things, to me; and none of them mean more coming from an AS over an NT or from an NT over an AS. I think you and I just have really different perceptions of dating, in general, and I'm baffled by what I'm seeing as your attempt to "rank" these things in value or how they should apply to status/eligibility (when in an AS vs. an NT). I could just be misunderstanding, completely.

P.S. I assume you meant 'discipline' and not 'disciple'? Just asking for clarification.

P.P.S. Oh, and I don't equate "nice car" with "hard working". Maybe that's my disconnect?

Social skills is of value because social skills is a form of power. And an Alpha male with social skills has even more. Wealth is a powerful thing also. As a result it is an attractive thing also. Perhaps in the modern age, more can be achieved social skills but the work that an aspie need in order to achieve this is unbelievable.

An aspie can give 20, 30 years of blood and sweet towards social skills and some lazy 17 year old teenage out of school does it better without trying.

The of crap I receive from NTs you would end up believing that I am not trying. Or even less then try, wilfully put a spanner in my own works.

Imagine receiving that kind of abuse for being lazy and feckless worker. "Wake up you dips**t, you should have been up by since 5. "" How many items could you have listed instead of typing on web forums, hahh", "when you get back from work, I want you to start listing enough items to fill a box before midnight. "

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Nice clothes, recognition, a fancy car. They may not be defining things, but they will get you in the door. And like with a job interview, if they make it past that I think a lot of Aspies can do well for themselves once their positive traits are given a chance to come to light.

How much money would a male have to make in order to get an automatic 'foot in the door' pass? I'd say 60-150k.

I'm sure no one here is like that, but women can often times be just as superficial as men. They are just better at refusing to admit it.

I think there is a little better also. If I lived in world full of aspie woman , the NT woman would really have to stand out to be noticed.

Being a junior high dropout is tough...

I do think an Aspie male needs something to compensate for his obvious lack of social awareness if he wants to find a partner. I earn 52k a year, and it hasn't managed to get me a girlfriend yet, so maybe it really is not about money.

Finding love is like winning the lottery, but with better odds. I can't put an amount to it, though, because it's worth so much more than green pieces of paper or a number on your bank account system.

And why the f**k haven't you banged a hot escort yet? You are only punishing yourself with your virginity.