Dating Neurotypicals

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16 Dec 2011, 1:58 am

They should be prepared and willing to act as facilitator if necessary.

Example: If he abandons you in social situations, or puts you on the spot in front of people,
and then later blasts you for melting down or doing or saying something weird, it's a very bad sign.

You're not a child and he's not your parent,
but it's still his job to realize when you're truly overwhelmed, and to act accordingly.

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16 Dec 2011, 7:55 am

I've actually been with my partner for over 6 years, but the AS topic has only come up in the last 18 months or so (just to put it into the context of I'm not jumping into something new).

NTgal
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16 Dec 2011, 8:00 am

Thanks it's interesting you say this, as this seems to have worked well in the past and just seems to have come naturally to me, without even thinking of it. The idea of doing otherwise is what I would equate to mind games, which I just don't and wouldn't do.

OddFinn wrote:

NTgal wrote:

Hi all, I've been reading this thread, and I'm an NT female dating an AS male. Any tips you recommend?

Be honest. Don't surprise him. Tell him verbally what you like (and dislike).

I'm an AS male, who is married to an NT female, and just trying to remember what it was like to date someone

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